I am trying to get her back!

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She has been gone for over a month. why does she still have her mail sent here?

Place a note in the mailbox. "This person does not live her any longer. Please discontinue service to this mailbox for said individual." Sometimes the postman will listen.

I ended up having to save up all of one ex's mail and write "Does not live here, return to sender" on about 40 peices of mail and stick it back in the mailbox. The next day I had a note saying, "Could you please let us know who lives here?"

Filled that note out, was fine after that.