Boyfriend has a sexual crime record. Help.

[Junket]

Yeah, he shoulda waited until she was 18, oh well.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Why would he be watching teen porn? You are acting way over the top. He did not know what else do you want from him? It's in the past. I wouldn't tell you anything from now on if I were him. Look at how far you've gone.

I'd understand your reaction had he known she was underage. But guess what, he didnt. You keep saying it as if he knew she was 16 but yet he didn't.

[Junket]

There are a lot of 16 year olds I'd like to bang, it's not like people naturally only find those of legal age attractive.

3...2...1...HAPPY 18th Birthday!

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Wow, you're hot.

[Aeradalia]

Meh... I still find teenage boys to be mildly attractive... and I can't tell if they're 17 or 20 most of the time. I don't pursue them... but I do look. If a person has all the right attributes, 'looks' close to 18, and has the stance and very close mindset of someone older... it'll never cross your mind that they might be underage.

I've had people treat me like a little kid until I start speaking... then they go from "hey kid," to "yes ma'am"... all because my mindset is older than my perceived 'look.'

My dad is 50 years old... and 25 year old are attracted to him. When he tells them his age, they lose interest immediately.

Yes, some people do not look or act their age... yes, when men are broken they may look to sex as a means of boosting confidence... get over it. Or get over him.

It happened in the past... long before you arrived. He can't change it... and neither can you. He's a different person now... so what more do you want?

[vashti]

If a person has all the right attributes, 'looks' close to 18, and has the stance and very close mindset of someone older... it'll never cross your mind that they might be underage.

Maybe not when you are in you early to mid 20s, but when you are in your 30s? I think it does.

Also, I believe most decent men are pretty well aware that sex with kids = trouble, paranoia sets in, and they want to cover their asses.

[Sonrisa]

Maybe not when you are in you early to mid 20s, but when you are in your 30s? I think it does.

Also, I believe most decent men are pretty well aware that sex with kids = trouble, paranoia sets in, and they want to cover their asses.

keyword - decent

[Junket]

keyword - decent

And what would you know about decency?

[starbuck]

If he has something in his past that makes you uncomfortable, you have every right to cut off the relationship without shame or judgement. I don't think anyone would blame you if this was something that you couldn't get past. (I'm not sure I could deal with something like this myself)

That being said, there is no way you can ever know what's in a guy's mind. If you do continue with the relationship, it would be best not to dwell on him thinking about underage girls and give him the benefit of the doubt that he doesn't have creepy tendencies. Otherwise it will nag at you and you'll only be making yourself miserable. If you stay with him, forgive him for his mistake and go on with your lives.

This is really all about how you choose to perceive him in relation to your happiness. Ask yourself this: What would give you the MOST peace of mind in this situation? To accept that you can't live with it and break up so you can move on? Or to forgive him and move on? Either way, you can't stay in limbo about it emotionally.

[misombra]

i have a friend who is 16 and i am in my 30's and the girl is very much a child.

there can be no mistaking.

[Junket]

i have a friend who is 16 and i am in my 30's and the girl is very much a child.

there can be no mistaking.

Why, because she has her age tattooed onto her forehead?

[Sonrisa]

And what would you know about decency?

did you like sticking it in doppel's ass?

[Junket]

did you like sticking it in doppel's ass?

What are you talking about?

[Sonrisa]

What are you talking about?

well you mentioned in another thread how you would want to bend over a pretty girl and stick it in her, doppel makes a very pretty girl.

[Junket]

well you mentioned in another thread how you would want to bend over a pretty girl and stick it in her, doppel makes a very pretty girl.

Well you could have at least quoted my other post into here.

Jesus, how the hell was I supposed to make that connection?

Also, my original question above, still stands.

[Sonrisa]

Well you could have at least quoted my other post into here.

Jesus, how the hell was I supposed to make that connection?

Also, my original question above, still stands.

i am not sure how you'd want me to reply to it. what do i know about decent men?