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Thread: Does He Just Think Of Me As A Friend?

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    This message is hidden because JaneH is on your ignore list.
    You're not worth my time douche.
    Last edited by Yggdrasil; 28-06-09 at 04:46 PM. Reason: added the obvious
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    This message is hidden because JaneH is on your ignore list.
    Logic and order has been restored.

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    ygg keep posting

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    order?

    wow, you really do live on here.

    I think I'm going to make this my new home, too!

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    Dumb troll says what?

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    loser.

    bump.

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    Rawrrsome... my condolences for the distraction... you had a question that needed to be answered, and the attention was detracted from that. Rest assured, this is not a common theme on this forum.

    Now to your request, I will have to agree with the older members on here... that there simply isn't enough information to draw a positive (or negative) conclusion about the affections of your friend.

    Sometimes men will cling to a female as a 'friend' while they cast their affections on another. Then again, it's been known for men to one day realize their close friend could indeed be a love interest.

    So you can either watch a little more closely to try to gauge where his affections really lie... or you can make your own feelings a little better known (via flirting, spending time... etc)... or if you feel the situation warrants it... you can be direct with him and tell him how you feel. However, with the last suggestion... it's best to have very good reason to think that he is showing interest in you --- which based on your post doesn't seem conclusive.

    I wish you luck in your pursuit and hope it all works out for you.
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

    - James Allen

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    Quote Originally Posted by JaneH View Post
    Yep. He definitely digs HER, hate to break it to ya. To him, you are just a crutch--a friend he will hang around with only to be around this other girl. Forget about him; you are only setting yourself up for heartbreak. Plenty of fish in the sea!
    What if he's been talking more with the other girl about the OP? What if this other girl is flirting with him because she's hoping he'll be interested in her? And he's just playing the flirting game because he's a natural flirt?

    There are so many possibilities... both positive and negative... and far too little of information determine which is more likely to happen.

    If the guy was really interested in her and she decided to 'forget about him' she will have missed out...

    Even if you are right... you're just as likely to be wrong... and it'll be the OP who will have to pay for faulty advice --- not you.

    The only advice available is of an ambivalent nature --- the same nature of the information provided.

    Don't be so quick to jump to negative conclusions...
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

    - James Allen

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    Wow, this is so pathetic it's funny.
    I'm my own damn hero because the only person saving me is me.

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