Originally Posted by
Sanctuary
When I meant attractive in my theoretical example, I meant overall attractiveness (which for the men, we defined earlier) not physical attractiveness. I wasn't clear though, sorry.
Look around you - for the most part, the great girls get the great guys and vice versa.
But yes, people probably don't match up as perfectly as I say but I think that hypothetical is still a fairly accurate microcosm of the dating world.
I agree with you Sanctuary. Good thinking. Its a reasonable model based on what I've observed. Of course (duh) there are exceptions--this is true for any theory. But the real test is whether it allows you to predict certain pairings/behaviour and I think your model could. So long as we could agree on how an individual is ranked #1, 2, etc. That could be the sticking point.
Graham - you are being the typical idiot criticizer. Like the scientist/heckler in the back of the room who criticizes his betters' ideas but hasn't himself published a paper in a decent journal for years.
Its trivial to pick holes in someone's idea. But I don't see you posting the better alternative or improving Sanctuary's ideas. Let's read it--I'd be more than pleased to find the holes for you.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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