mutual, mature, breakups....are they possible?

[qwertz]

My worst nightmare too.
Im glad my son was too young to understand when i split with his dad. It will be a very, very long time before any man is introduced to him.

[Gigabitch]

****, I hate Moe's ex. What a jerk.

Perryville, it CAN be done. My daughter adores her stepdad. I think you have to carefully look at the women you're dating and try to find a common thread. Are they all not up to par in the same way? What is it about all of them that causes you to gong them right off the stage? Could you learn to look for these flaws before you get too involved?

[Moe]

****, I hate Moe's ex. What a jerk.

Gigabitch
I know you've read most of my post and what you said is what happened and I even said in past post I didn't want that to happen and it did. After what I did to her she still had the nerve to come up to me and try to talk to me a few days ago in a parking lot.
I didn't think I would ever be able to HATE anyone.

[Gigabitch]

Well, watching your daughter cry for hours can change a guy, you know?

[Perryville]

Gig, I think that maybe I'm overly sensitive to any "flaw", that I think would impact on my kids. By the same token, I am always uneasy around women, who seem "too perfect". It's a nasty situation to be in. Plus I really don't like pulling the plug on a girl, and having her go whacko about it. This is the main reason that about all I am comfortable with, right now, are superficial sex encounters, or FWB type relationships. another thing is that FWB's usually always become something more involved.

[Gigabitch]

Remind me- how long has it been?

[Perryville]

3+ years since she left.

[Gigabitch]

Dude. Quit porking her.

Frankly, quit porking so many women in general. Send a message to yourself that you're ready to meet The One. Nobody really needs to have this much sex with randoms.

[Perryville]

I already have. I told her before Christmas that it was over, as far as sex was concerned. Gig, I AM ready to meet the ONE!!! All I'm doing now, is amusing myself, until I find her. That really sounded bad, didn't it.

[lahnnabell]

Maybe it's a lack of focus? Seems like you bring these ladies 'round, see where things go, develop a sexual relationship very quickly, and then the either go crazy, or you just don't feel chemistry, and then they go crazy.

Maybe hold off on the sexual escapades if you're trying to find something more than just a one-nighter? I like sex too, but if I'm looking to get serious with someone, I take sex verrrrry slow.

[Perryville]

The process usually works this way: I meet and am attracted to a woman , we start to date and begin to get to know each other , I will realize that the woman isn't the right fit and nothing more than a sexual relationship is going to happen, then the sex happens, after a time we break up and the woman is upset. That's about it.

[Gigabitch]

I'd be upset too. Women do dumb shit, Perry, like agree to an NSA situation in the hopes that once the man gets a taste of her super special honey, he'll be hooked.

[Perryville]

I understand that, Gig, but it's not like I'm not up front about it or anything. I really try to make them understand that I'm looking for Mrs. Right, and if she's not it, then all there is , is either friendship or sex.

[Perryville]

BTW, These are Doctors, Lawyers, professional women. Wouldn't you think that they would be mature enough to understand?

[Gigabitch]

Nope. Frankly, I'm astonished at how capable women are of deluding themselves when it comes to men.