Her bf broke up with her, how should I approach the situation?

[lahnnabell]

Well, the only way you can get past this is by giving yourself space. I think it was a good call to cut this chick out of your life, especially since she was trying to keep you on some sort of leash that made you emotionally available at her whim. She knew of your feelings and manipulated the situation for her own benefit. You let her get away with it for a while, but now you're back to earning your own self-respect again. This will enable you to move on and give your full attention to a more deserving girl.

[xxazurexx]

The worst part of it is that he's her option and i'm her option. It's so hard for me to just walk away.

I know. Trust me, I'm kinda in same boat like I said

Waste of time giving advice on walking away for good, because I havn't managed to do that myself yet
It means ignoring his calls, etc,etc....and I'd feel such a cow.

Being too 'nice' is our downfall.

[xxazurexx]

It sucks because I do have alternatives but I don't want any of them.. Girls have come and gone, i've gone on dates, but when i'm out with them she's the one on my mind. My ex gf knew that and that's actually the reason she broke up with me, because she knew even though I didn't cheat on her physically, emotionally i wasn't 100% there. That's why right now I feel like I don't even want to bother putting myself out there knowing this fact beforehand.

Last thing on your mind, should be looking for an alternative.

You need to take time out and alone and get over this one first.

You go back to dating, when you are ready to date and that can take some time.

But you will get there. We all think we won't find anyone that compares, but we do eventually. Someone perhaps even better than her.