Ok people, I thought i'd dig this conversation back up because something kicked off last night. This girl came round to my place last night to help me with some studying. She started helping me with my studying but then we got sidetracked into talking why a relationship wouldn't work between us and why we are glad that we are friends. It's because I'm in the military and she can't cope with the worries especially the current situation in Afghanistan.

We then ended up laying on the floor together and we just had a serious chat together when we then started getting intimate. We then ended up having sex together and now it's starting to get complicated. She's scared that she doesn't want to hurt me but she has developed feelings for me but wouldnt tell me. I then drove her back home and when I got back home we had a general chat over the phone before i went to bed. I just don't understand this situation myself anymore. Please explain it to me.How can just being friends turn into this?