Friend problem

[Rowen]

No problem. Just do what you feel is best for you in your heart.

[someguy221]

Move to the other end of the universe?

[Rowen]

Well...if that's what you feel is best... >.>

[someguy221]

Haha not possible. Thanks again Rowen. Really appreciate it.

[Rowen]

No problem, someguy. If you ever need anything, you can always PM me. I'm here for you.

[someguy221]

I sure will.

[someguy221]

Don't know if I should write here or if I should make a new thread altogether because the situation has evolved and I'd like to pose my problem in a new manner.

The person has moved on and is allergic to me(I do not blame her) or acts it. They have moved on and there is no space in their life for me(except for a very, very peripheral role).
So the wise thing for me to do is to move on too. Except that's impossible, being in the same class. Even sharing a campus is really hard. Any ideas? I realize I pose an impossible question.

[rob1984]

so what happened, that makes you think she is allergic to you..?

[someguy221]

Icy cold disposition, monosyllabic replies and avoiding my presence outside of class. Among other things.

[smackie9]

Ya you can move on....by respecting her space, and cut off any contact. You need to stop making this person your whole existence. There are other girls on that campus that would love to be your friend or BF.....you just won't give it a go because you are so absorbed with this chick. Let her go, it's over. Change will be good for you, you will see.

[someguy221]

Thank you smackie.
Oh don't worry about space issues. I am just as aloof, except it doesn't come naturally to me.
Tried that for a long time, and it is difficult sharing the same campus with this person. Have your eyes out all the time for the person. But I guess you're right, it's better than the current situation. Dropping the class I suppose. And there I was thinking I would never let this affect my academics.

[smackie9]

You just need to wash that girl right out of your hair, as the song goes lol. Be positive.

[someguy221]

I shall try my best.

[rob1984]

good luck man, maybe she will see you being bfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff's lol with another girl and get jealous and then say " OH No he didn't " sorry got carried away.. keep positive..

[someguy221]

No she won't. She doesn't care.
What I don't get are the mixed signals. You don't want much to do with me and I understand that just fine. But why would you send me a text out of nowhere hinting heavily that you miss me? Why would you encourage me to take a class with you and then act like i'm contagious? Especially when you know you have great influence over me and I had already expressed reservation about taking a class with you.