Uncomfortable with his gal pal

[HeartIsAching]

I don't think sleeping in separate beds is conducive to getting their relationship back to normal. The longer they don't bond, the wider the wedge is hammered between their own emotional connection. No matter what a couple is going through, that old adage "never go to bed angry at one another" is a wise one.

From personal experience, this is 100% true.

From my classes (and I believe it to be true) going to bed angry is better than making up and having make-up sex. Make-up sex sets a mental association and gradually widening rift over time.

[Wakeup]

I don't think I've ever had "makeup sex." I'd not be in the mood if I was still basically angry and nothing was actually settled. Just doing it to try and reconnect somehow. Well, I too agree with your class on that one, as well.

[Starnique]

**** that, female friends that close are off limits. Most men have an issue if you have another man friend smiling all in your face. I just dont play stuff like that. My BF, a couple of years ago had this female friend that I didnt like. Women can sometimes read into things more then men can. I seen it in her eyes, she wanted him. I know him like a book so I know it was innocent on his part. Me and her got into it real bad because she made the mistake of trying to tell me about my man. MY man. Honey, you cant tell me nothing about him (not my exact words) I told him as long as he was her friend, I was gone. Who's more of his friend me or her? Their friendship ended a few days later because I already knew where it was headed.

[Starnique]

I don't think I've ever had "makeup sex." I'd not be in the mood if I was still basically angry and nothing was actually settled. Just doing it to try and reconnect somehow. Well, I too agree with your class on that one, as well.

It fun and wonderful at first but after so many times, its like no this is not a game. Thats not going to work this time.

[michelle23]

It fun and wonderful at first but after so many times, its like no this is not a game. Thats not going to work this time.

I dont think you will ever have a healthy relationship with your current man. Sorry. Its co-dependency.