Sex and other things.

[AcidLacedKunt69]

yes, only-virgins i think that was a perfect sum and possible clif hanger to ur own question

[Tone]

Everything will be opinions on this subject OV... how are you going to find facts on this? Yes, it is a fact that in my opinion sex is better while in a relationship with someone. Unless you get 80% of the United States population to take a survey you're not going to get any facts here. =/

[Only-virgins]

Everything will be opinions on this subject OV... how are you going to find facts on this? Yes, it is a fact that in my opinion sex is better while in a relationship with someone. Unless you get 80% of the United States population to take a survey you're not going to get any facts here. =/

Then I think that people should do a little more "shut the fawking up" with their relationship preaching everywere dont you think?. All I ever hear is how much of a jerk this guy is and how much this guy is bad in a relationship and a waste of time....bah..its all opinion then how can you blame some guy who just wants ass?.I dont anymore.

[indigosoul]

1. Where do you draw the line of importance of sex?

I’m not sure I understand what you are asking; this seems like an intro question to the rest… expand if you mean this as a separate question, OV.

2. When is sex the main point and when is it just an activity to people?

The main point is when you’re horny. But it can also be an expression of love, a form of communication that you can’t express in words. This is especially true in a loving relationship. Sex for its own sake is often about pleasing oneself (e.g. one night stands), whereas sex in a relationship is often what I said above and is also about caring about the other person. Wanting their pleasure, happiness, and making them feel “cared for”, which also gives YOU pleasure. It’s a mutual, self-reinforcing cycle that is lovely to experience.

3. How important is sex in general to you people? Is sex important in a marriage? Does sex run a relationship or marriage?

It doesn’t usually run it, tho it can be an index of how the relationship is doing.

4. What is more important? Sex or support?

You need both. But if support, understanding, trust, etc. is missing from a relationship, the sex (at least the loving sort I described above) often suffers.

5. Does age make a difference on the opinion of this? Do younger people search for sex and later in life search for a match?

I think ppl search for both, but the relative importance changes as one gets older. A good match is difficult to find when young, esp. since one doesn’t often know what one wants. Sex is relatively easy to find.

[Only-virgins]

The main point is when you’re horny. But it can also be an expression of love, a form of communication that you can’t express in words. This is especially true in a loving relationship. Sex for its own sake is often about pleasing oneself (e.g. one night stands), whereas sex in a relationship is often what I said above and is also about caring about the other person. Wanting their pleasure, happiness, and making them feel “cared for”, which also gives YOU pleasure. It’s a mutual, self-reinforcing cycle that is lovely to experience.

Things would be much less fawked up if those two activities were two separate different activities. To me ..Rape and "relationship" sex is the same shit...prove me wrong? you cant be cause at the ends its the same god damn activity...dick goes in...dick goes out. The penis should be rejected through pussy decapitation if love chemicals are not sensed in the brain.lol...that would work.

[indigosoul]

Things would be much less fawked up if those two activities were two separate different activities. To me ..Rape and "relationship" sex is the same shit...prove me wrong? you cant be cause at the ends its the same god damn activity...dick goes in...dick goes out. The penis should be rejected through pussy decapitation if love chemicals are not sensed in the brain.lol...that would work.

LOL, the "guillotine". Ha!

Seriously tho, the difference is in INTENT, OV. Or the thought behind the action. Yes, rape & sex & "making love" are all the same physical act. Just like yelling at someone could be considered abuse or help (if they were about to step onto a street & get hit by a car, for example). Depends on the context. This is why I think communication is sooo important in a relationship, so you can get a sense of what your partner is thinking/feeling. Also, there are other ways to express love besides sex. It just happens to be a very nice one.

Keep thinking, OV! Good job!

[whaywardj]

I don't see any reason to mince words, Tone.

[Only-virgins]

LOL, the "guillotine". Ha!

Seriously tho, the difference is in INTENT, OV. Or the thought behind the action. Yes, rape & sex & "making love" are all the same physical act. Just like yelling at someone could be considered abuse or help (if they were about to step onto a street & get hit by a car, for example). Depends on the context. This is why I think communication is sooo important in a relationship, so you can get a sense of what your partner is thinking/feeling. Also, there are other ways to express love besides sex. It just happens to be a very nice one.

Keep thinking, OV! Good job!

Intention doesnt exist though does it? I see were you are coming from though.

[Tone]

Things would be much less fawked up if those two activities were two separate different activities. To me ..Rape and "relationship" sex is the same shit...prove me wrong? you cant be cause at the ends its the same god damn activity...dick goes in...dick goes out. The penis should be rejected through pussy decapitation if love chemicals are not sensed in the brain.lol...that would work.

OV I hope you don't mind me borrowing a quote from you:

You sound like a ****ing idiot.

[blue_moon2]

ROLF

nice one Tone!

[indigosoul]

OV, I know this won't help you much now, but all i can say is you'll have to find out for yourself. You've gotten some very good answers here, but you don't seem truly interested in our answers, just the argument itself.

Your question would be like someone asking you:

Well, WTF about this whole "eating thing"?? I've eaten nothing but _____ (fill in the blank) all my life. You say there's this whole other gustatory experience out there...? Well, I don't see how eating ______ is any different from (chocolate, steak, seaweed, whatever). I mean, its just putting stuff in your mouth and swallowing, right?

Point is, it is the experience that is lacking. Just don't worry about it so much, believe us, you'll be okay OV and you WILL find out what we mean.

[Only-virgins]

OV I hope you don't mind me borrowing a quote from you:

As a matter of fact I do. What kind of ****ing idiot cant come up with his own insults?

[Only-virgins]

OV, I know this won't help you much now, but all i can say is you'll have to find out for yourself. You've gotten some very good answers here, but you don't seem truly interested in our answers, just the argument itself.

Your question would be like someone asking you:

Well, WTF about this whole "eating thing"?? I've eaten nothing but _____ (fill in the blank) all my life. You say there's this whole other gustatory experience out there...? Well, I don't see how eating ______ is any different from (chocolate, steak, seaweed, whatever). I mean, its just putting stuff in your mouth and swallowing, right?

Point is, it is the experience that is lacking. Just don't worry about it so much, believe us, you'll be okay OV and you WILL find out what we mean.

I have no freaking idea what you are talking about. I am talking about "why the hell people have relationships if they can get sex anyways" and you are talking about food....*scratches head*.

[whaywardj]

As a matter of fact I do. What kind of ****ing idiot cant come up with his own insults?

Sheer genius, OV.

[Clifton]

Isnt that opinion though? I know I asked what people's opinions are on this but I guess I would like some real proof that there is more to relatonship then just sex...cause so far its looking grim.[/QUOTE]


Uhm a relationship is 3 kinds of connections to me, emotional, physical, and mental
emotional being caring for someone
physical being sex and other forms of affection
mental meaning for me just stimulating conversations ect..making each other laugh
its a friendship too.
i mean, if its a serious relationship and your constantly around each other, think of how much time you spend with them when your NOT having sex. if nothing else is there its not even a relationship, its just a ****buddy.