After waiting for so long, I ditched her

[Starnique]

I'm glad I decided to take my time and actually think about things before doing anything. All your posts have been very helpful, even though they are two sided. I'm glad I didn't apologise and i don't feel the need to anymore. You are right, I don't need a women that will just piss my time away, and this is something I take very seriously. I never make people wait on me and I expect the same in return. A simple apology from her end will solve everything. I'm always ready to forgive, and she should know this as I am a nice guy (sometimes too nice), and if I don't get the apology so be it. In the end, I haven't lost much.

All in all it was a nice couple of dates, and she was a a nice person to get to know, but there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Thanks for all the comments!

Good for her. Good f uckin riddance.

[surfhb2]

Good for her. Good f uckin riddance.

Get your ass out of the shower and be there on time!! All the guy did wrong was use the wrong wording to tell her to stuff it.

Other then an accident or an extreme unforeseen event, there's no excuse to be late for a date.......NONE!!!

[Divine]

Aww that's really mean. She was probably all excited and was busy primping because she liked you and wanted to look good. I would say your decision was kinda irrational and almost certainly would be hurtful to her. You'll be lucky if she still wants to go out with you. Probably what I would have done if I were you would be to text her and tell her that you were already on the way and then you could just hang out with her until she was ready. Nobody has to lose their cool in that kind of situation. There are always solutions.

[smackie9]

Don't waste your breath, he has thrown this girl into the trash.

[HeartIsAching]

Don't waste your breath, he has thrown this girl into the trash.

...and she ****in' deserved it.

[Skeptical]

Wow! If a guy does that to me I will be really pissed off and hurt. That is not cool!
She told you she was gonna be late, so she maybe went to the shower and left her phone on her bed, so she didn't get to see your text. then when she was all ready to go, you said you left!
You have to learn to be a man, that means you have to learn how to wait! women take a lot of time to get ready! Duh!

What you did is totally unacceptable and unmanly. She was wrong buy not texting you back, but man you were even more wrong.

She told you she was gonna be late until 8:30, so technically you only waited for half an hour! Men don't leave after half and hour waiting, that is nothing.

I don't wanna make you feel bad or anything, but she was probably trying on different dresses and putting on makeup and fixing her hair, she wants to look good to you. And after she was all ready, you told her you left. that is the worse feeling ever because I went through it once. Imagine a girl dressing up and then changing and removing the makeup ..etc and staying home. Ugh I am so pissed at you. Good for her that she saw what personality you have haha, better now than later!

[surfhb2]

Wow! If a guy does that to me I will be really pissed off and hurt. That is not cool!
She told you she was gonna be late, so she maybe went to the shower and left her phone on her bed, so she didn't get to see your text. then when she was all ready to go, you said you left!
You have to learn to be a man, that means you have to learn how to wait! women take a lot of time to get ready! Duh!

What you did is totally unacceptable and unmanly. She was wrong buy not texting you back, but man you were even more wrong.

She told you she was gonna be late until 8:30, so technically you only waited for half an hour! Men don't leave after half and hour waiting, that is nothing.

I don't wanna make you feel bad or anything, but she was probably trying on different dresses and putting on makeup and fixing her hair, she wants to look good to you. And after she was all ready, you told her you left. that is the worse feeling ever because I went through it once. Imagine a girl dressing up and then changing and removing the makeup ..etc and staying home. Ugh I am so pissed at you. Good for her that she saw what personality you have haha, better now than later!

Grow up! Your panties would be half way up your ass if a guy held you waiting for a half hour without an explanation. What planet are some of you girls from?

[dickriculous]

Wow! If a guy does that to me I will be really pissed off and hurt. That is not cool!
She told you she was gonna be late, so she maybe went to the shower and left her phone on her bed, so she didn't get to see your text. then when she was all ready to go, you said you left!
You have to learn to be a man, that means you have to learn how to wait! women take a lot of time to get ready! Duh!

What you did is totally unacceptable and unmanly. She was wrong buy not texting you back, but man you were even more wrong.

She told you she was gonna be late until 8:30, so technically you only waited for half an hour! Men don't leave after half and hour waiting, that is nothing.

I don't wanna make you feel bad or anything, but she was probably trying on different dresses and putting on makeup and fixing her hair, she wants to look good to you. And after she was all ready, you told her you left. that is the worse feeling ever because I went through it once. Imagine a girl dressing up and then changing and removing the makeup ..etc and staying home. Ugh I am so pissed at you. Good for her that she saw what personality you have haha, better now than later!