Why are non-ghetto black men seen as very unattractive?

[DannyH]

I did not listen to much music when I was younger. In the past few years I recently started listening to music. I mostly listen to rock and pop that is not rap.

Make on topic. Through personal experience I've been labeled as a nice guy for not being ghetto. I'm not a yes man. I don't kiss anyone's ass. People say that I dress like a nice guy because I don't look like a black thug. People say that I need to learn how to act gangsta and dress like a thug. I wonder what the requirements are for a white man to dress to not be seen as a nice guy, I doubt there is such a code for men from other races. I have lost count about how many white guys I've seen in polos, button ups, and suits who have been called assholes just like white men who dress casual or less than casual.

There really is no code to dressing like a nice guy. Sounds to me like they say you look like a nice guy. Small things like that cause misunderstandings. It's all good though if you move out of the area and see the world as a bigger place you'll start changing your outlook on things. There is more to being black then what mtv/bet tells you.

[IndiReloaded]

There's only one issue with this theory. What I have witness is that non-ghetto black women are desire ghetto black men as I stated in the OP.

Again being non-ghetto does not mean a man is nice. A black man can still be a very disrespectful person without acting ghetto nor carrying himself as a ghetto man. Man doesn't need to be ghetto to be a player.

LOL, okay. Well, then I guess its hopeless for you. Best study up on your ghetto technique.

[Incognito]

I think this sums it up nicely...

[DannyH]

I think this sums it up nicely...

lmfao agreed