Selling virginity in the US

[CocoChanel]

Im no oil painting, but she wasnt even that attractive either..

Maybe it was more to do with the fact that she was a lesbian virgin?

She had probably taken it loads of times with a strap on anyway.

LMAO!! Woman you!
IDK about the lesbian virgin part. It's not like she was throwing in a female for a threesome.

[IndiReloaded]

I can't control what everyone else does. Only what I do.

And you should start doing so, as soon as possible. You write the words but don't act on them. Boundaries isn't just a word in the dictionary, Coco.

As for being smarter, Coco, I *am*. It is perhaps a bit outre to be so clear about it, but its not bragging. No more than a bird brags about flying. Instead of being so damned insecure about what you lack, you should focus on how you can do better.

[misombra]

I can't control what everyone else does. Only what I do.

it's true.

There have been many times where people have "knocked me" because they know something I don't or knows more than I do about a subject. Why bother helping someone if all you are going to do is brag and boast about how much smarter you are?

because people like to brag about themselves. and people like to "knock" others. it's fun sometimes. take the advice you think you need and don't worry about the rest.

The advice given to questions I ask is never genuine, hence, it is mentioned in this thread... and for what?

BULLSHIT. you have gotten some really good advice from genuine people in here. don't "knock" those who've given it to you. you just gave appreciation the other day to indi, who provided you with an article about how to handle your mother-in-law and it turned out good. now why would she have posted this disingenuously? there's no point it in. you perceive things defensively, and makes people want to act offensively toward you. the tao of football.

When I look back it... the Duh was really unnecessary. The Duh was inappropriate and immature (I agree). So for that... I do apologize.

apology accepted.
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[CocoChanel]

BULLSHIT. you have gotten some really good advice from genuine people in here. don't "knock" those who've given it to you. you just gave appreciation the other day to indi, who provided you with an article about how to handle your mother-in-law and it turned out good. now why would she have posted this disingenuously? there's no point it in. you perceive things defensively, and makes people want to act offensively toward you. the tao of football.

You didn't get it. I was specifically talking about Indi, not everyone else giving me advice. Due to the fact that she gives advice to help you... but then talks shit about it after-wards (for example: in this thread).

[IndiReloaded]

Coco, have I said anything that isn't true? Don't get mad at me for something you know I'm right about.

Sure I give advice. Good advice. So do 10 other people, in series. Did you think ppl don't discuss this kind of thing?

Now, if you were truthful and said you really aren't interested in solving a problem, you are just desperate for people to listen, that's different. But you've come at multiple people crying 'poor me' but then don't do anything to help yourself. Of course after a while people get tired of it. That kind of behaviour is okay for a teenager still finding their way in the world, but you should have grown out of this by now.

Sorry Coco, but your recent crap doesn't deserve much better. You are lucky there are some of us still keeping the rest of your issues under wraps.

[CocoChanel]

Coco, have I said anything that isn't true? Don't get mad at me for something you know I'm right about.

Sure I give advice. Good advice. So do 10 other people, in series. Did you think ppl don't discuss this kind of thing?

Now, if you were truthful and said you really aren't interested in solving a problem, you are just desperate for people to listen, that's different. But you've come at multiple people crying 'poor me' but then don't do anything to help yourself. Of course after a while people get tired of it. That kind of behaviour is okay for a teenager still finding their way in the world, but you should have grown out of this by now.

How do you know that though? I never volunteer information because I know most of you don't actually give a shit. Who are you to say when someone should stop asking for advice, help or guidance if they feel they really need it. And what proof do you have that I am not doing anything?

Oh and yes you have said many things that aren't true. Shit that you don't know anything about.

[Gigabitch]

50K for virginity? LOLOL. Not a chance.

You are selling yourself short. Get married. PM Elle for details on 'how to'.

Oh wait, can't b/c the little golddigger was banned...

Really? Somebody banned that little brain donor?

[qwertz]

yep, think it was a mod having a grumpy moment and ruining our fun

[Gigabitch]

I exercised great amounts of control not banning her. That girl worked the ragged end of my very last nerve. Half of it was her terrible aesthetic choices. Dumb is okay. Dumb in two-inch tall pink letters is NOT.

[IndiReloaded]

Giga makes a great barber-shaver.

[Gigabitch]

I get the feeling some people would appreciate it if I were more mean and cruel. It just seems wrong to me to ban people just because I don't like them.

[IndiReloaded]

No, there are other ways to shave barbers and you have that down pat. You can do it even w/o the mod account.

[Mish]

I exercised great amounts of control not banning her. That girl worked the ragged end of my very last nerve. Half of it was her terrible aesthetic choices. Dumb is okay. Dumb in two-inch tall pink letters is NOT.

In many ways Elle for me epitomized my own personal experience with many (young) female immigrants from Russia. This self absorbed, self centered arrogance, undeserving feeling of entitlement shrouded in a cone of stupidity, vindictiveness and plain insanity is so familiar to me. You know in the past when I made comments on western women, it's these types of women that I was really talking about. And there are so many of them.

Unfortunately this stereotype never dies for me. In the past, just when I'd think I'd found an honest immigrant woman from Russia, it would only take a few moments before I see an Elle trying to get out. I have so many examples I can show you. Which is sad because there are really nice Russian girls out there. But these Elles have hijacked their cause and tarnished their collective reputation.

[IndiReloaded]

I never volunteer information because I know most of you don't actually give a shit.

"Never volunteer"? LOL, that's quite the fantasy world you live in.

Why should anyone 'give a shit'? First of all, its the internet so reign in those expectations. If you do manage to get some decent, FREE help here then count your blessings like Miso says. Its like winning the lottery. But, assuming there are ppl here who genuinely care to sometimes help, what have you given back to anyone here? You are a regular who takes much, expects more, but who can say they've received anything back from you by way of kindness or advice? A big, black emotional hole is what you are and yes, doing not much about it.

My opinion of your situation hasn't changed, Coco. You've read it before, and it hit enough of a nerve that you felt compelled to delete the thread. Don't mistake the fact I don't mention your atrocious, unstable family situation as a lack on consistency on my part. What is ridiculous is how you defend it. Sometimes, Coco, being ashamed of a situation is the motivation someone needs to pull themselves out of the muck. I said before you are an older version of Elle and its appalling in a parent. The opposite of shame is pride. Try it.

[CocoChanel]

"Never volunteer"? LOL, that's quite the fantasy world you live in.

Why should anyone 'give a shit'? First of all, its the internet so reign in those expectations. If you do manage to get some decent, FREE help here then count your blessings like Miso says. Its like winning the lottery. But, assuming there are ppl here who genuinely care to sometimes help, what have you given back to anyone here? You are a regular who takes much, expects more, but who can say they've received anything back from you by way of kindness or advice? A big, black emotional hole is what you are and yes, doing not much about it.

My opinion of your situation hasn't changed, Coco. You've read it before, and it hit enough of a nerve that you felt compelled to delete the thread. Don't mistake the fact I don't mention your atrocious, unstable family situation as a lack on consistency on my part. What is ridiculous is how you defend it. Sometimes, Coco, being ashamed of a situation is the motivation someone needs to pull themselves out of the muck. I said before you are an older version of Elle and its appalling in a parent. The opposite of shame is pride. Try it.

Of what situation Indi? And I delete those posts when they get out of hand since the moderators wouldn't do anything about it. There is nothing atrocious or unstable about my family situation... don't know where that came from.