so if i just relax and not really think about it does that help? i have heard that if you arent relaxed it will not be as comfortable for you so you have to make sure you are completely relaxed. any suggestions on what to do so i dont think about it and can relax more?
i also had a question about condoms...do the prelubricated ones work or is it safer to get the ones that arent and just use lube each time? or does it matter? i have a feeling that this is going to happen really soon and all these questions keep coming up about it. thank you all for all of your help and advice. i really appreciate it and it has helped alot.