Negativity

[Mish]

You could try my method, Rosebud: Just smack him in the head and tell him to get over himself.

Intense, hyper positivity therapy ussually works, but if he is so full of himself that he won't even acknowledge your presence then I agree with Shh!'s method to bring a reality check! Or, make that a slap followed by "Be a man"

[Rosebud]

Sombra, what are you starting?????? LOL

Hayward, yeah right! He thinks all that stuff is a joke. He wouldn't go unless it was for like marriage counseling or something and even then would be minimal speaking.

[whaywardj]

Okay then. Offer him an object lesson and give yourself a break. Tell him you need some distance from his negativity 'cause it brings you down too much. Then limit your contact and forget about trying to help. Enough people do that, sooner or later, he'll get help. Or, rather, people usually do once they see the writing on the wall.

[Mish]

...And if his negativity brings you down too much, you don't want to loose your sanity!

[Rosebud]

LOL.. I won't lose my sanity.. I gained ground a long time ago. It just bothers me that sometimes I can't get him out of these moods. He works it out on his own and then he's fine, but when he says these comments....it's just like an impulse I have to make him feel better... But when I try he gives another negative comment.

[misombra]

Yeah I know, see one of my prior posts - I think that way only about those people who are constantly depressed, or constantly tryin to complain about how bad their life is.

I've known people like that, anytime you tried tellin them about any kind of problem you were havin they would just come back with what they had to deal with or w/e... always havin somethin negative to say~

well i've known people that are happy all the time ~ nothing bad ever going on in their life ~ happy-go-lucky. puke. i HATE those people!

[Asip4u]

well i've known people that are happy all the time ~ nothing bad ever going on in their life ~ happy-go-lucky. puke. i HATE those people!

It's most likely an act sombra. They dont complain about anything in front of others yet when they're alone it's a different story.

[Tone]

Yeah for sure Asip, everyone has their turn, everyone.

[Junsui]

Rosebud, kick him in the balls.

[Tone]

WHOA!

Someone is fiesty today... I won't say who!

[shh!]

Junsui is my soul-sister.

:-)

I like your style.

[Junsui]

Well I figured he might see how great life was before having all of that pain. Hah

[Tone]

Junsui you need a new title under your name.

I WAS thinkin "Mrs. Tone" has a nice ring to it, but then I read what you said in that other thread.

>;[

[Junsui]

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[Lloyd95]

Junsui, 7 more posts to beat me.