sex with an older guy

[Only-virgins]

I suspect that's because you've probably taken the time to actually learn from the resources that are out there. There are some young guys out there who aren't afraid to take books out of the library and learn about how to please their partners. A good idea, btw, to anyone who hasn't done this yet.

OV, I think you're barking up the wrong tree about young women & sexual experience, BTW. Instead of berating them, why don't you try to sell them on the idea of developing good longterm relationship skills? Get them to invest in the benefits of a strong, stable relationship for 20 years or so? Then, once the kids are grown (or someone dies, or whatever) the woman can then go & sow her wild oats.

I know its a reversal of the norm, but whyever not? At that age (40s, 50s) a mature woman need not remarry or even get that heavily invested in an LTR. If she worked hard earlier, she'd be wealthy, intelligent, experienced, educated... why should she need ANOTHER permanent partner to feel self-fulfilled? But she couldn't be considered a 'useless whore' by any means, could she, having already invested a couple decades in a career, husband, raising children, etc.

Just an alternative viewpoint to think about.

Well, that is an interesting point of view. I don't feel like I am scolding them. Just debating. I am assuming you mean a 20 year old stable relationship built with someone not much older? Why would I try and push the idea of developing long term relationship skills?

Oh and yes, young people should learn more about the opposite sex. I took the first step by coming here, loveforum, where lots of well educated and experienced women hang around.

[IndiReloaded]

Well, that is an interesting point of view. I don't feel like I am scolding them. Just debating. I am assuming you mean a 20 year old stable relationship built with someone not much older?

Exactly, someone your own age. It is, despite all us 'oldies' complaints (mostly tongue-in cheek), a really great learning experience. The idea, btw, isn't that unique. I've been reading articles about 'renewable contract' type marriages for several years now. They tend to suggest 10 years, which is a bit short from the viewpoint of raising children. 15 - 20 would be more suitable, IMO.

Why would I try and push the idea of developing long term relationship skills?

No real reason, that was just an off-the cuff remark. I guess I meant it as a monogamous relationship selling point, personal growth, yada yada, assuming you were interested in such.

[anachronistic]

I just saw a picture of bloodtippedrose. She is really cute!

[bloodtippedrose]

There are some young guys out there who aren't afraid to take books out of the library and learn about how to please their partners.

My ex boyfriend told me about while he was a virgin he would spend hours reading up on all sorts of ways to have good sex then he would practice delaying his orgasm. Whatever books he read they were gold. You never would have been able to tell by looking at him either. Smart guys can surprise you

Oh and yes, young people should learn more about the opposite sex. I took the first step by coming here, loveforum, where lots of well educated and experienced women hang around.

I noticed that really REALLY young people come around here looking for sexual advice and fishing for compliments which is given to them whole-heartedly. Its awesome to find out what makes girls/guys tick so youre a stallion in bed but I hate giving advice to active kiddies, its like giving them a pat on the back

I just saw a picture of bloodtippedrose. She is really cute!

Thank yoooooou. Im an acquired taste

[anachronistic]

Yes, well, if you are going to undergo your intentions in your original post, you should keep it on the downlow.

I'll catch you on the flip side. Jo jo dat!

[Only-virgins]

Exactly, someone your own age. It is, despite all us 'oldies' complaints (mostly tongue-in cheek), a really great learning experience. The idea, btw, isn't that unique. I've been reading articles about 'renewable contract' type marriages for several years now. They tend to suggest 10 years, which is a bit short from the viewpoint of raising children. 15 - 20 would be more suitable, IMO.

What? a Contract marriage. I think that is a bit crazy. What would be the benefit of that. I mean you could just divorce if things get bad anyways. You mean a great leaning experience for a woman who dates someone around her own age will have learned something in the process? Don't we offer more? haha

[IndiReloaded]

What? a Contract marriage. I think that is a bit crazy. What would be the benefit of that.

I think the benefit is supposed to be preventing the stagnation that happens in a lot of marriages b/c ppl get lazy about putting effort into their relationship. Kinda like the phone companies that start offering you awesome deals when your term contract is almost up. So I've read. I'm in the 'bonded for life' contract.

[bloodtippedrose]

Yes, well, if you are going to undergo your intentions in your original post, you should keep it on the downlow.

I'll catch you on the flip side. Jo jo dat!

Keep what on the downlow?

[Illusional]

Im not a whore Dear God I dont aspire to **** everyone on a football team or even chase after guys cuz they look cute so I can brag about it or something gay. Lets take everyone in the world and make them have sex with the one person and only one person they are going to marry and be with for the rest of their lives. Then what do you get? Ill tell you what you dont get.. drama.. and Jerry Springer...
Anyway I admit to being a TEENAGER who is HORNY as **** but I keep it to myself and this is the first time I have wanted someone that I didnt intend on carrying out a relationship with and its the first time Im single in three years. I dont even know how to be single! And I asking for advice on what to do! I dont think that classifies me as a whore but if thats what youd like to label me as then alright, Ive spoken my peace brudda

hahah be careful in where you ask for advice because everyone is willing to give you their two cents.. or a bit more in some sitatuions.

I think a lot can be learned from an older man. They are better in bed, and they are often more mature. I am more concerned about your unresolved relationship with your boyfriend, and that you avoid like the plague any notions of longevity.

a lot can be learned from older men, sure they are better in bed and they can make you cum like a f*cking waterfall..
*takes a bow*
however, like some men, i can do all the above, and then leave without waking you up in the morning because i have to be somewhere in the morning.

=)~

raverboy

[Only-virgins]

a lot can be learned from older men, sure they are better in bed and they can make you cum like a f*cking waterfall..
*takes a bow*
however, like some men, i can do all the above, and then leave without waking you up in the morning because i have to be somewhere in the morning.

=)~

raverboy

Yea, the doctor for your arthritis pills and viagra.

[Illusional]

OV, i was thinking more along the lines of did i pass my herpes to the next victim?? i have been taking valtrex and as far as i know, it hasn't been acting up lately... i think.

raverboy

[kinkyangelina]

a story for ur evening fantasy

[bloodtippedrose]

a story for ur evening fantasy

2/2 posts spam. block the bitch

[v0ndutch]

If it's just for a fúck, who cares?

I don't think there's anything wrong with being interested in older guys.

If a guy is younger than me, I just wouldn't be able to date him or have sex with him.

I think older guys are just more attractive because I don't know, it feels like they're more mature.

If the guys is that much older though, more than 8 years older is a little too old. I wouldn't feel comfortable with a guy that much older than me.

[DoesntMatter]

If a guy is younger than me, I just wouldn't be able to date him or have sex with him.

No wonder college isn't quite the paradise people make it out to be for freshman. All the sophomore, junior, and senior girls are already older than you! And half the freshman girls too. That really narrows things down now, doesn't it

But in all seriousness, yeah you'd probably have a lot of fun with the older guy