My wife feels like a bitchy roomate that no one wants to be around. What should I do?

[bluesummer]

Well, why don't you tell that to the OP then. That was kind of my point.

[Cain]

That post wasn't directed at anyone in particular. Just a general comment to all.

The OP knows what he needs to do. He just doesn't want to do it. This marriage needs a lot of work and if she isn't willing to work on it, divorce is the only option.

[Mish]

Thanks for letting me vent guys. I just have nowhere to turn.

That's one of the problems I see in your approach already, you are just venting and not replying to real advice that people are giving you. Are you like this in real life too? It seems like you are playing a victim much too often imo, I might have an idea or two why your partner might be stonewalling you. If you are as keen to work with her and find a common ground and understanding as you are in this thread then at least some of her responses don't surprise me. It takes two to tango.

[Illusional]

If your miserable, talk to her about it, or just leave.

P.S. I gave Illusional 200 Thanks Woot! Woot!

that was very nice of you, however, like an old gf, i have moved on to number 201.

raverboy