This is the lighthouse that I was talking about. I loved going to this place and just sitting there for hours at night and thinking about things. This was my escape after my breakup. It's pretty quiet out there, you can hear the waves crashing...the lighthouse also has a fog horn that is for some reason really peaceful sounding.
I didn't take this picture...but this was wear I used to sit. There were benches all along the edge of the bluffs in that area.
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