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    Look, if she wasn't dating the men, or sleeping with them, then she'd be taking you along most of the time if not all of it. Doing one-on-one things without you repeatedly with new men is called dating, not "friends".

    Don't be an idiot, and don't be afraid to lose this woman.
    "Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."

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    Konart.. if you've spent as much time around men as you claim.. you'd see the logic in Frasbee's words.

    The last thing this guy needs is to be sheltered from harsh words. Harshness is sometimes the only way you can tell when something is severe. Why do you think euphemisms work so well? Because they mask the harsh reality in pretty words and soft context.

    This woman is manipulating you... and contrary to popular stereotypes... the man does not have to stand for it. It is your right to want a fair relationship in which you both can be open with each other without fear of what games the other is trying to play on you now.

    If she is threatening to cheat... then she may as well have already cheated --- she is setting you up to fail so she CAN cheat with a supposedly clear conscience... which is bullshit.

    Cut through her crap and give her an ultimatum of your own. Either she treats you with the decency and respect you deserve... stops with the mind games... or you and her are through.

    If you fear she will just let you go... then the relationship is already over --- all you're waiting for is validation.

    Being with someone you love is suppose to build you up --- not add drama to your life. This isn't love... far from it.

    You can't save her from herself.. you can't save this relationship... and you can't make her love you. What you can do is pick up the pieces and move on. You're just wasting time you could be spending with someone who is worthy of your patience and affections.
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

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    Quote Originally Posted by HopelesslyInLuv View Post
    My concern for her well being has never kept me with her. I think it is a little bit much to make so many assumptions based on one statement from me. I believe I know her, know men in general, and know what she has ahead of her. Add to it that she lives somewhere where the men aren't particularly kind to women.

    I gave up on trying to change her years ago. I have been accepting of certain things, this particular topic being one of them. I think it is clear that I have been too accepting. I am sure there is some term more suited to me than "shining knight syndrome". I think I preferred it when you called me a "pussy". I think that's more correct.

    I agree. Over is over.
    pussys are strong. they give birth, they get fuked, and they can go back to their tight selves.

    i resent that the word pussy is used to describe weak men.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    pussys are strong. they give birth, they get fuked, and they can go back to their tight selves.

    i resent that the word pussy is used to describe weak men.

    How about old wore-out ex-porn star pussies? You know, the kind that are too loose, just dangle, and nobody would go within 500 ft of?

    Would that work better?
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

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    do you hate pussies aer?
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    do you hate pussies aer?
    Nope... far from it..

    Unless of course you're talking about weak men...
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

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    we need a new word for weak men.

    how about little wee wee's?
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    we need a new word for weak men.

    how about little wee wee's?
    I call them "Nice Guys"
    "Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    we need a new word for weak men.

    how about little wee wee's?
    Nah... men have another word than just pussy... "bitch."

    This word implies they don't have a dick at all, which is emasculating to men... whereas, it has become a more or less empowering word when used by women to describe themselves (for some reason).

    But if you want a more direct word... I guess you could use 'stubby'... 'micro-phallus (micro-phallic tendencies.. etc)'.... 'eunuch'... 'lacking in testicular fortitude'... 'no-balls'... 'dickless'... or dare I say it 'castrated.'


    "Nice guys" is a euphemism... it beats around the bush too much for my tastes...
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

    - James Allen

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lite View Post
    I call them "Nice Guys"
    nice guys have a place in this world and make a contribution to the goodness that is man. can you say the same about little weewee's?
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Nah... men have another word than just pussy... "bitch."

    This word implies they don't have a dick at all, which is emasculating to men... whereas, it has become a more or less empowering word when used by women to describe themselves (for some reason).

    But if you want a more direct word... I guess you could use 'stubby'... 'micro-phallus (micro-phallic tendencies.. etc)'.... 'eunuch'... 'lacking in testicular fortitude'... 'no-balls'... 'dickless'... or dare I say it 'castrated.'


    "Nice guys" is a euphemism... it beats around the bush too much for my tastes...
    bitches get a bad name too though...
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    bitches get a bad name too though...

    Well damn.. I gave you other options...
    "The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    nice guys have a place in this world and make a contribution to the goodness that is man. can you say the same about little weewee's?
    No, because to me, "Nice Guys" are the little self-absorbed asses who will do anything and everything to seperate you from your girl because they believe that you don't treat her well enough. You know, the guys who complain that every woman's man is an asshole.
    "Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."

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    Quote Originally Posted by misombra View Post
    bitches get a bad name too though...
    A he-bitch perhaps?
    "Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Well damn.. I gave you other options...
    well i need more!


    Quote Originally Posted by Lite View Post
    No, because to me, "Nice Guys" are the little self-absorbed asses who will do anything and everything to seperate you from your girl because they believe that you don't treat her well enough. You know, the guys who complain that every woman's man is an asshole.
    i would not consider that nice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lite View Post
    A he-bitch perhaps?
    a he-bitch. i don't know. he bitches are kinda cool too.
    baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.


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