Tips for getting a girlfriend and will my simplistic lifestyle be harmful.

[IndiReloaded]

Who was the idiot poster who asked if I hit her ? My god, it was sex, not combat what the ****... the ignorance of some people astounds me.

I'm not ignorant, far from it & you know it George. Your other posts make me wonder if you have some barely-repressed aggression towards women. I posted that to see what kind of reply you gave.

There are some sick men out there who do visit prostitutes to hurt women b/c they can't deal with their own frustrations and failings. You wouldn't be the first.

I'm glad to see that you have some boundaries in your hatred of women. Your bark seems worse than your bite.

[BoredGeorge]

I'm not ignorant, far from it & you know it George. Your other posts make me wonder if you have some barely-repressed aggression towards women. I posted that to see what kind of reply you gave.

There are some sick men out there who do visit prostitutes to hurt women b/c they can't deal with their own frustrations and failings. You wouldn't be the first.

I'm glad to see that you have some boundaries in your hatred of women. Your bark seems worse than your bite.

You speak about this like you assume you have some knowledge. The mantra you read in your feminist books is not true. In areas where prostitution is legal there is no abuse. Escorts that are responsible will avoid any and all abuse. You wuld end up in a lot of 'trouble' if you were silly enough to hit an escort.

I say that you are ignorant because that is what you are. Let me break this down for you. Woman has sex with man. Man pays her at least $200 for one hour which, by the way is cheap. She likely charges that much because she does not know what to charge or because of her bad attitude knowing she would not retain clients if more were charged.

Better escorts can charge $300-350 an hour nd if they are really good $400-$800 an hour is what some men will pay.

Escorts are not all little drug addicts standing on street corners. You might see a pretty little girl sitting in a coffee shop or even working at the coffee shop, or on her way to her job, or college classes and think she is wonderful and nice but the truth of it may be she is moonlighting and sucking off old men for money and not have a problem with it.

Your feminist books have lied to you

[IndiReloaded]

I haven't read a feminist book in my life. So your ignorance right back at you. Don't assume all accomplished women are feminists.

But, yes, I am certainly ignorant of prostitution. If your post is true, then I concede that. I intend to stay that way.

My info comes from a friend who is a police officer who works in this area. But, in Canada, prostitution is illegal and is associated with a lot of drug trafficking and violence. Its very dangerous for the women.

I still stand by my other post, which was to suggest you hold close your experience with prostitutes. A lot of women such as myself might find it distasteful.

[BoredGeorge]

I haven't read a feminist book in my life. So your ignorance right back at you. Don't assume all accomplished women are feminists.

But, yes, I am certainly ignorant of prostitution. If your post is true, then I concede that. I intend to stay that way.

My info comes from a friend who is a police officer who works in this area. But, in Canada, prostitution is illegal and is associated with a lot of drug trafficking and violence. Its very dangerous for the women.

I still stand by my other post, which was to suggest you hold close your experience with prostitutes. A lot of women such as myself might find it distasteful.

I do not think it is the best habbit in the world. Had I not been to a whore I could have bought a nintendo wii. I am usually pretty tight with money apart from the whores. I'll probably start going to get 'massages' instead because it is cheaper... am man still has needs.

Why would I tell a woman about it ? It is none of her business. Is she going to tell me the details of every tom dick and harry she has sucked off ? Sorry to be blunt but I think the point needed to be made.

[boobaa]

I haven't read a feminist book in my life. So your ignorance right back at you. Don't assume all accomplished women are feminists.

But, yes, I am certainly ignorant of prostitution. If your post is true, then I concede that. I intend to stay that way.

My info comes from a friend who is a police officer who works in this area. But, in Canada, prostitution is illegal and is associated with a lot of drug trafficking and violence. Its very dangerous for the women.

I still stand by my other post, which was to suggest you hold close your experience with prostitutes. A lot of women such as myself might find it distasteful.

If prostitution were legal, there would be tons of regulations, so the danger would be reduced to minimum. The cost would go higher, but then there would be less **** ups also.

Something to think about, since prostitution will always exist.


And Indi, I would be more held back with the accusitions if I were you, you just can't judge someone over the Internet. -1 to you. It would be like judging a race.

[BoredGeorge]

Well I am going to look for a better place to live. I looked at a room in an apartment where 2 young professionals are living so we could be room mates. It is a bit more expensive but it is a nice apartment and they're good people unlike the douchebags I live with at the moment.

I am putting in a lot of effort at the gym and I bought a new pair of jeans and two woolen jumpers so I will look nicer. I am also going to buy a bed and get myself a hair style.

Lots of waisted money if you ask but I guess it will give me more confidence...

[IndiReloaded]

Why would I tell a woman about it ? It is none of her business. Is she going to tell me the details of every tom dick and harry she has sucked off ? Sorry to be blunt but I think the point needed to be made.

Don't be sorry, its a valid point. As for why? You'd be surprised. There are loads of people out there who are quite willing to self-destruct via misplaced guilt. If you aren't one of those, you are at an advantage.

Provided you have a moral code you hold to. If you are just self-centred and don't feel you have any responsibility towards anyone or anything, then you are in trouble.

Anyway, carry on George. Until you find someone to love, just be safe w/your exploits. Paid or otherwise.

[IndiReloaded]

And Indi, I would be more held back with the accusitions if I were you, you just can't judge someone over the Internet. -1 to you. It would be like judging a race.

Boobaa, what accusations are you talking about? Of course I can make judgments, I do so all the time. I'm paid to do so, IRL.

You seem to think I have a problem with being told I'm wrong. Nope. So long as the explanation is reasonable I'm quite prepared to change my thinking. Anyway, I post stuff here all the time to see what pings back. Mostly everyone here knows it. Shrug.

[BoredGeorge]

Don't be sorry, its a valid point. As for why? You'd be surprised. There are loads of people out there who are quite willing to self-destruct via misplaced guilt. If you aren't one of those, you are at an advantage.

Provided you have a moral code you hold to. If you are just self-centred and don't feel you have any responsibility towards anyone or anything, then you are in trouble.

Anyway, carry on George. Until you find someone to love, just be safe w/your exploits. Paid or otherwise.

Sorry, there is nothing wrong with being wrong. I am used to a disproportionate reaction from women surrounding these topics.

[Yggdrasil]

[vashti]

I don't have a problem with you having sex with a prostitute, george. Just wear a condom and keep your mouth off her vagina, for god's sake! And indi's right - keep it to yourself. Your eventual girlfriend never needs to know about it.

[uri]

Girls are bad. They hate me because I am ugly. You should see the reaction I got from them at a party. Women are just shallow as men it sucks to be an ugly man because you can never find a girlfriend.

I'm not ugly but I'm not good-looking either. I'm an average black guy. But I don't hate women. I'm not a misogynist, I love women but I'm simply not good at attracting them.

I'm boring guy who doesn't talk alot and I like science and technology very much. Women don't like me very much because I'm a boring and often too logical and realistic person and I don't talk a lot (not even with my parents) and more importantly I lack a sense of humor. Psychologists call this situation Asperger syndrome. Asperger's syndrome:

[url]http://www.udel.edu/bkirby/asperger/aswhatisit.html[/url]

If one day I will succeed in dating a woman I feel attracted to, I'm afraid I'm just going to bore her to death and that she will loose interest in me immediately because of that. I can't develop interesting conversations with women and that's my problem. When you're dating a woman you have to keep her interested all the time and you can't allow yourself to come off as boring and uninteresting. Women do not feel attracted to boring and nerdish guys.

I know guys who are not rich and are not so good-looking but they still know how to keep women interested and how to develop interesting and funny conversations with women and women like funny guys a lot.

And that I think is my true problem. I'm not used to communicate a lot with people in real life except on the Internet and I don't know how to develop conversations which will be interesting to women.

[IndiReloaded]

Boring, socially awkward, with an interest in science doesn't make you Aspergers, doll. If it did, I'd be an aspie and I am definitely not.

Boring is relative. Social skills are learned. Interest in science means you will make more money than most of your peers one day. Its all good.

[BoredGeorge]

Boring, socially awkward, with an interest in science doesn't make you Aspergers, doll. If it did, I'd be an aspie and I am definitely not.

Boring is relative. Social skills are learned. Interest in science means you will make more money than most of your peers one day. Its all good.

I used to love Science but I got over that pretty quickly one I discovered the real world. Science is for people who are already wealthy and people who do not value having a life.

The people who studied Science were very arrogant, thinking they were superior to everyone else because they studied biology. I quit and studied what I thought would help me and now I have an interesting career. They're finishing their PHD's and going 'what now?' or they're still working some shitty job. I'm working hard now I put away half of what I earn and I have a savings plan for retirement so that when I am 40 or so I will get a degree in mathematics and see where I can go from there, probably teaching.

I really don't know what to do about girls. I'd like to have a girlfriend but they just don't like me. I thought about dating a fat one but how would we date, she'd want to have sex and I'd find her too unattractive.

Imagine having to kiss her ? Yuck. That is not what a relationship should be about.

[IndiReloaded]

Science teaches one how to think. Its true too many students go into a PhD b/c they can't think what else to do. But for those who are good, it is very lucrative. All your professors, for example.

LOL, if you think a biology student is arrogant you should try a math or physics major.