Should I have to explain?

[michelle23]

do you trust ur bf? has he ever hurt you? do you feel safe with him? you have to trust that he wont take advantage of you-otherwise you should not be together

[onesexyblonde]

they said you deserved to be abused...?

yes my mom told me if i didnt deserve it he wouldnt have done it

[onesexyblonde]

do you trust ur bf? has he ever hurt you? do you feel safe with him? you have to trust that he wont take advantage of you-otherwise you should not be together

i trust him to a point, i do feel safe with him when hes home, and ove never been in a position where he could take advantage of me

[michelle23]

your mom probably didnt realize the seriousness of it. Ask your therapist to talk to her

[onesexyblonde]

your mom probably didnt realize the seriousness of it. Ask your therapist to talk to her

my mother and i havent talked since she kicked me me out when t tried to tell her what happened lets leave her out of this

[ashley89]

the conversation seems to just be going in circles. tell your boyfriend about your past, bring him to therapy with you so you can finally deal with these demons and start to heal. there isn't much more advice we can give you than we already have.

[ashley89]

also, if your ex boyfriend got in trouble for raping you and had to do jail time, how does your current boyfriend not know this if he's supposedly still really good friends with him? something isn't adding up here.

[onesexyblonde]

also, if your ex boyfriend got in trouble for raping you and had to do jail time, how does your current boyfriend not know this if he's supposedly still really good friends with him? something isn't adding up here.

my boyfriend leaves for work for long periods of time its eassy to hide things from him and i have said three times at least i am witing for him to come home an then i will

[ashley89]

so it wouldn't come up in conversation with him and his friend? and he wouldn't have found out one of his friends is a registered sex offender? I'm not buying it

[rob1984]

so for 3 years you were able to hide it from him ? yeah kinda weird.. you said he got 1 year.. so is he out now or has he been recently convicted., and if they are friends how are you able to hang out with your ex as well.

[onesexyblonde]

so for 3 years you were able to hide it from him ? yeah kinda weird.. you said he got 1 year.. so is he out now or has he been recently convicted., and if they are friends how are you able to hang out with your ex as well.

recently convicted i just came clean not too long ago and who says i hang out with him i dont have to be friends with my my bfs friends i told him i dont like him now either belive me or dont not my problem but like i sai in my last post its always the victim that gets the hard time

[rob1984]

so you told your bf ? and what did he have to say ?

[onesexyblonde]

so you told your bf ? and what did he have to say ?

do u really care now or are you just seeing what the "troll" has to say. Seein where this goes? Because im not plain games with you

[rob1984]

im curious.. is he mad at his buddy, or at you that you did not tell him ?

[onesexyblonde]

im curious.. is he mad at his buddy, or at you that you did not tell him ?

If you really wanna know both, hes upset i did't feel i could tell him and that his buddy could do that