Sex and other things.

[Only-virgins]

Isnt that opinion though? I know I asked what people's opinions are on this but I guess I would like some real proof that there is more to relatonship then just sex...cause so far its looking grim.


Uhm a relationship is 3 kinds of connections to me, emotional, physical, and mental
emotional being caring for someone
physical being sex and other forms of affection
mental meaning for me just stimulating conversations ect..making each other laugh
its a friendship too.
i mean, if its a serious relationship and your constantly around each other, think of how much time you spend with them when your NOT having sex. if nothing else is there its not even a relationship, its just a ****buddy.

Basically...what you are saying is that you dont get in the relationship for the sex but you get sex during a relationship. According to your opinion I want a **** buddy...cause I couldnt care less for the other shit...chicks bore the hell out of me.

Anyways...I can get "friendship" from guys and even stupid ass animals.

MY question. What happens if I dont care for her company..or anyones for that matter?

[shh!]

You could probably get sex from at least some of those, too. :-)

[Only-virgins]

You could probably get sex from at least some of those, too. :-)

LoL. Its not if I could but would I want too?..Hell no.

[shh!]

Well, if you get desperate...

[Tone]

As a matter of fact I do. What kind of ****ing idiot cant come up with his own insults?

[indigosoul]

I have no freaking idea what you are talking about. I am talking about "why the hell people have relationships if they can get sex anyways" and you are talking about food....*scratches head*.

Well, this is what I'm saying. Theres many difference facets of the sexual experience. Just like not all eating is the same experience. The physical act is just the act, but our perception of it, and the context around it, changes the quality of the experience.

Relationship sex gives a different experience than sex w/o any emotional attachment. For some, this difference is important.

I don't know how to express this any more clearly, OV, sorry.

[Only-virgins]

Well, this is what I'm saying. Theres many difference facets of the sexual experience. Just like not all eating is the same experience. The physical act is just the act, but our perception of it, and the context around it, changes the quality of the experience.

Relationship sex gives a different experience than sex w/o any emotional attachment. For some, this difference is important.

I don't know how to express this any more clearly, OV, sorry.

I know what you are trying to say. The food part is funny though..You just stuff your face till your not hungry anymore because otherwise you will die...thats my view on it. Hey look though...its not the perceptions of the experience that matters...ever..because its way to relative..the sexual activity is the same in every case with maybe some position changes lol. You can say..oh wow..I have a more passionate sex with her becasue I love her..well to me ..thats like..thanks..but I dont know that. Anyways...I can have great emotional passionate sex with someone I love and never be in a relationship with them...think about that.

[Clifton]

[QUOTE=indigosoul]
Relationship sex gives a different experience than sex w/o any emotional attachment. For some, this difference is important.

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well put... its something i usto value and treasure, sex with someone im in love with, now though i think ill settle for getting off with girls who i will never open up to. but its not because its better, its because at this point in my life i cant deal with a relationship on top of everything else, i cant deal with caring about someone.

[Tone]

Just give it up Indigo, he'll continue to argue and not understand until he actually experiences it.

[Snipaa]

OV, its understandable. You havn't been in love to understand.

[Only-virgins]

You havn't been in love to understand.

See..this is why I come to this forum..people on here know me more then I know my-self .. ....not!. I am currently in love.

Just give it up Indigo, he'll continue to argue and not understand until he actually experiences it.

As in experience sex? ...give me a break

[Tone]

And a relationship.

[Snipaa]

See..this is why I come to this forum..people on here know me more then I know my-self .. ....not!. I am currently in love.

That's a start, now wait till you make love and then go on a fling, you'll see how different things are.

[blue_moon2]

ov.... i can most definitly say you are one of the most anoying stuborn arguative baby's i have ever had the misfortune to encounter.

you just dissagreeing with everyone on purpose.

grow up.

[Only-virgins]

And a relationship.

Seriously?. . What is it about a relationship that will en-lighten me on this subject so much?

ov.... i can most definitly say you are one of the most anoying stuborn arguative baby's i have ever had the misfortune to encounter.

you just dissagreeing with everyone on purpose.

Im not going to take you to seriously. Not after you miss-spelled every other word...sorry....

I am stubborn though. I think its a good thing. I like to argue but I dont sound like a baby...you cant tell on a forum. No one is forcing you to be in my thread though are they?...cause if they have a gun to your head then I can call the police for you. I dont argue in person face to face...I am just laid back and I stay quiet....arguing is were the forums come in.

Anyways..I dont argue..I debate.