Who should have made the move, me or her?

[pcmaster]

Childbirth is not supposed to be painful. Its actually supposed to be orgasmic.

You said its possible orgasm from breastfeeding too. That means pure pleasure for you all the way. Way to go Michelle !

[michelle23]

Look it up. I watched a video on it on youtube. It was fascinating. Im not saying it doesnt hurt. Im just saying new research suggests that naturally its not supposed to hurt. They believe the readon it hurts so much is coz women are prepared for it to hurt so they are tense and scared. Some women have had natural water births at home and said they did have orgasms throughout.

They also recommend sex after you go into labor to relax her and ease the pain.

Obviously i dont know that much about it. I only read a few articles and watched a few videos but im just saying what ive learned

[michelle23]

You said its possible orgasm from breastfeeding too. That means pure pleasure for you all the way. Way to go Michelle !

Ya i read that in a magazine. At first i thought it was kinda messed up but i looked it up and apparantly its all part of bonding and that research lead to a link on natural births and orgasms..

I obviously have a lot of time on my hands lol but it is interesting. I thought that this was all a big thing in america that hadnt come to europe yet as id never heard of it before but its prob still only a minority of women looking into it in the US too

[Wakeup]

I don't have to "look it up" and you shouldn't even be talking about this until you've had your own experience. You can sight your source and then ask for opinions/comments but talking about it like you know, You can talk about it of course, your perogative but your credibility is whack when you present the way you did.


Sex right after delivery? Nah... they don't even do that in the animal world.

BTW: There is some (at least there was for me) feelings of arousal when I first breast fed... however; to the point of orgasm... well, I'd not let it get that far. I want to bond with my baby, not use it to get off. lol

[michelle23]

Not after delivery. After her waters break. I cant provide links now. Im on my phone. Ill have a look tomorrowim not saying I KNOW. I have ot given birth. Im just saying what ive learned through research.

[lalalita]

Why do we need help?...cause games are played in the early stages by women. You just said it yourself a few posts ago. This is what you said, "A smart girl will not make it too easy for him." That's the definition of game playing...you're purposely making it hard for him and being deceitful...why? Why would a smart girl not make it easy, wouldn't a smart girl want to do the right thing, be honest and not lie to a guy who she just met and likes.

So a smart girl would make it easy for the guy because it's the right and honest thing to do.

Example: You're saying don't make it easy for the guy. Say he's driving home from work and you know there's a 10 mile backup on the road he usually takes. He doesn't know and will be stuck in traffic for an hour. Would you tell him so he can take an alternate route or would you be a smart girl and not make it too easy for him. The point is, for some reason relationships and sex blur people's rational and cause them to do irrational things that they normally wouldn't do.

Letting a man be a man and do the courting has nothing to do with "playing hard to get" or being deceitful. You still show interest to the man, but you let him do the foot work. His actions will mostly likely show his intentions and how much he has invested.

It's not like I pretend to be uninterested and bored on a date, always checking my phone and not involving myself in conversation. It's nothing like that. He will damn well know I'm interested.

But this doesn't even matter, because you're continuing to ignore the fact that SHE WAS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. You're making it sound like you had the upper hand. That YOU were the one not into HER because she "lacked balls". That's not what's going on here.

[pcmaster]

Forget her man. Sluts come and go she wasnt the first one and wont be the last one to offer herself. Dating sites are full of them. If you wana real GF better find them in real life.

[surfhb2]

Haha, highly unlikely but if so there's plenty of douches for the slut lol

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[surfhb2]

Haha, well I'd say I'm quiet confident with an enormous inner cockiness I rarely, if ever display.

Yeah.....no youre not....sorry

[Starnique]

Not after delivery. After her waters break. I cant provide links now. Im on my phone. Ill have a look tomorrowim not saying I KNOW. I have ot given birth. Im just saying what ive learned through research.

No disrespect, but you can research having a baby all you want. Until you actually have one,, you dont really know. i dont care how much you prep and use techniques, when them contractions start kicking in, its not a pleasant experience. Youre not going to be in pure bliss and that shit does hurt.

[michelle23]

I know star. Im just speculating and reading. Im not saying i know what its like coz i dont. Every woman is different, every pregnancy is different and every labor is different. Some are fine, some go through hell. I wont know what its like for me till i go through it myself but that doesnt mean i cant have an opinion or research something that catches my attention and then share that info