That's the point: we don't know what he considers her. We don't know if he's mad. Which is why they need to have a talk about what happened to clear everything out.
That's the point: we don't know what he considers her. We don't know if he's mad. Which is why they need to have a talk about what happened to clear everything out.
Her: has trouble with social clues, inexperienced, doesn't like confrontation, stubborn, lacks communication skills.
Him: not much experience either, insecure or lacks confidence, gives up easily, lacks communication skills.
LOL on this thread.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
I just saw him tonight at our meeting and he actually came up and said hi to me. I could tell he was nervous he acted like a 15 year old boy while he was eating a cookie, kinda giggly and stuff but we had a short and sweet conversation. we asked how we were and stuff but I stayed very neutral so I think it went well.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
how am i am leaving him guessing exactly? what should i have said then? "i love you!"? why did he come up and talk to me finally then if he did not want to before
He's testing the waters. Its a dance. He moves, you... move sort of with your head bobbing on your neck while looking about the room.
Why didn't you just take the opportunity to quickly say "about the other night.. I owe you an apology. lets go for coffee sometime and talk about it"
Communication. Its just that simple.
Last edited by IndiReloaded; 19-09-12 at 08:11 AM.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
:slaps forehead:
Sorry, but you're hopeless. lol.
Move... as in dance. I added punctuation but I doubt that will help.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
got it well i just wanted to say the progress on here to tell y'all that he has finally come up and initiated conversation again.
He has the patience of a saint that boy.
so its a good thing that he is initiating conversation now
OP, do you have some kind of issue that prevents you from reading social clues? Nothing wrong if you do, many people do - maybe just let him know about it so he doesn't think that you are completely uninterested in him?
What do you want?
I just do not want to seem desperate to him. either he is interested or he values the friendship still