Originally Posted by
Frasbee
Y'know, my girlfriends has argued with me over and again about how she rarely takes attraction to physical attributes of random other men. I've even tried catching her off guard by pointing guys out and she'll just have this puzzled look on her face like, "what are you trying to prove?".
Apparently she doesn't get a boner for random guys like I do for random girls on the street.
She does... she just doesn't realize that she looked at the guys because she found them attractive... then decided later to not be attracted.
Lots of women feel this need to prove they are in more control of their sexuality than they really are.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen