Don't be an idiot Qwert.
You know the answer - you can control your urges and desires, so can he.
Move stateside, GB seems to be filled dip sh!ts.
Don't be an idiot Qwert.
You know the answer - you can control your urges and desires, so can he.
Move stateside, GB seems to be filled dip sh!ts.
Last edited by Cbrider; 20-05-10 at 12:59 PM.
"What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."
The Warmonger
I didnt CB, im not taking him back.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
does he try to talk to you still?
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
Yep, everyday he phones or emails just asking to talk and saying he's sorry etc.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
fatal error.
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baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
Cut him off.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I do, i havent spoke to him in days. I just let his calls ring out.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Those are plausible explanations. Assuming it is true that promiscuity is a blind age-old instinct of our ancesters and doesn't necessarily help us now, do you think that those (people) who cannot evolve to adapt to our present circumstances would belong to the weaker groups who would eventually die out (possibly from venereal diseases resulting from their promiscuous behaviour)?
It depends on how sincere they sound when they ask for forgiveness. People deserve second chances, imo
The thing is, Cosmo, we don't have "car-driving" genes. We DO have desire-to-mate genes. Much as we try to wish it away or suppress it via serial monogamy, there is no getting around our desires as living beings to survive and reproduce.
Any way you can block his calls entirely?
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
I would never be able to take back someone who cheated. Not after what I know now. He just had to go and f*ck this up, eh? Stupid boy.
I liked the second article better than the first. It points out that genetics is only one piece in the puzzle that guides fidelity among many others, I agree with that.
I found these bits from the article interesting:
People who enter into long-term monogamous relationships, and who really keep their promises, "tend to be very healthy mentally," Peter Kramer, MD, tells WebMD. Kramer, a psychiatrist, is the host of The Infinite Mind on NPR and author of Listening to Prozac, Should You Leave? and most recently, Against Depression.
Don-David Lusterman, PhD, a marriage and family therapist and author of Infidelity: A Survival Guide, says he thinks some people who cheat are what he calls "pursuers," who are also called womanizers when they are men. "They tend to require great numbers of conquests and they perceive them as conquests," Lusterman tells WebMD. "I see that as a developmental flaw in an individual, as opposed to an affair frequently being a function of some disruption in the couplehood. They're very different things."In clinical terms, he says, pursuers often have a narcissistic personality disorder. They crave and demand affection and attention but are not able to return it in kind.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
Both articles assumes that people are not naturally monogamous. The first one tries to explain why this is the case. I don't think the first article is any less scientific than the second article.
The second article however goes into the psychological/mental aspect of it which I think is very important. After all, morality, intelligence, and mental self-control have a lot to do with it.