Bored George's Discontent With Life/Women/Anything Thread

[Gigabitch]

George, this forum should be making you feel a whole lot better about yourself. Are you reading these threads? Girls post here every day about how they "love" these broke-ass, cheating, lazy douchebags. You, at least, have a job.

You're a catch by the standards I see daily.

[Graham Berkeley]

In my experience money DOES help.

[girl68]

In a womens experience looks DO help- DUH.

Things like this are obvious! Money nor looks is everything but it makes life/ dating a helluva lot eaiser if you're a hot lady, or rich man.

[livingsoul]

my thought is this
if you want to be in a relationship with a girl
you should perhaps find a girl who likes you

I am ignorant of the purpose of putting five years toward building up something to give to someone or show it off to someone
I think your partner should be with you through many of your experiences including being with you while you are building up whatever you are building up
A relationship is about being with those of the relationship
Different from - "what do you have to offer me"
If a girl likes you for you then she will probably be with you while you are building up whatever you are building up

[BoredGeorge]

I think it is pretty clear girls do not like me for me and I'm not sure that a lot of them like anyone for who they are because you have to have something to offer or something for them to like in the first place.

The ones that are in the frame of mind that you describe will take off with someone who is better looking and more entertaining than me.

[qwertz]

maybe you need to change where you look for these women!

[CocoChanel]

Very true.
Try a strip club.

!!!
I am just kidding.

[Mish]

Step 1 - Collect Money
Step 2 - ???
Step 3 - Get lots of chicks

[MVPlaya]

I'm 25, I have a great paying job, but I never discuss my job with women. When women ask me what I do for a living I usually give a series of stupid answers. Women are attracted to wealth, and maybe if you do become wealthy it will compensate for the other things you lack, but it is perfectly possible to be attractive to women without being rich.

[MVPlaya]

I think it is pretty clear girls do not like me for me and I'm not sure that a lot of them like anyone for who they are because you have to have something to offer or something for them to like in the first place.

The ones that are in the frame of mind that you describe will take off with someone who is better looking and more entertaining than me.

Why don't you start here then:

1) Start working out, get in good shape, practice good posture until it becomes natural, and get nice clothes. This doesn't mean you buy bunch of expensive shit or fruity clothes, just check the discount rack at Macy's and there's a ton of fashionable not too over-the-top clothing that women will compliment you for.

2) Focus on things women would find interesting/entertaining. Say your hobby is building computers, probably not a good conversation starter, focus on your other talents, maybe you're a good musician or singer, maybe you travel a lot, maybe you just have a funny sense of humor. Find what makes you appealing to people and develop it. Personalities aren't these things you were given at birth and you're stuck with until death, you can focus on traits and improve them, that is called growth.

[minnie_an]

I dun agree with what you said. Money can buy everything, but can't buy the happiness between human to human

[Cbrider]

People are attracted to flashy things or things that are viewed as something out of the ordinary by society.

When I first started riding, I got peoples attention from just being on a bike. Girls started to just come up and talk to me if I was on it or stopped at a light or something. Its kind of cool at first I guess, but it wears off fast. I bought a bike to ring its neck and race, not to attract attention. You wont find me downtown standing on the street next to my bike looking like a Guido.

Material items may grab initial attention, but it rarely transpires to anything more than a flashy first look. You want the person interested in YOU, not what you own.

[CocoChanel]

I won't compliment shit that comes out of Macy's.
I hate Macy's.

But yeah... George... MVP gave some good advice.
You should try it.

CB keep in mind he just means upgrade his wardrobe and he said nothing over the top.
Any decent woman loves a well groomed man. Flashy clothes or casual... doesn't matter.

[girl68]

I'm not sure that a lot of them like anyone for who they are because you have to have something to offer or something for them to like in the first place.

There is not one or the other it is a combination. Even as a non golddigger- Of course you have to offer me something. And it doesn't have to be of monetary value, but you do have to bring something to the table IE offer me and the blooming relationship something. But in order to keep me you'd have to be a person I actually like; as in I would like to be with a man becasue I just like the person that he is.

[Gigabitch]

George, if you could just learn how to connect to another human being on a personal level, I think you'd be fine. You need a friend. You need to spend time with someone, anyone, learning how to act around other people.

If you didn't live on the other side of the planet, I would totally volunteer for this, but I can't. You have to find someone to be you IRL friend. Do it.