There are some chemistry and balance problems in this relationship.
1. As said by Hayward already, since your kid is your single highest responsibillity, all your actions should revolve around her first and yourself second (I think you are on the right track at the moment)
2. Your guy works too much. 7 days a week, 10 hour shifts is way too much time to spend at work for a father. You need to balance this out, even if he works 5 days and you work 2 days, those 2 days off he can take care of the baby and find out what it's like.
3. Because he works too much he needs fixes that bring him personal happiness outside of work and outside of responsibillities (Such as Hunting) - It shouldn't be this way, his family should be his fix. You will need to find a way of establishing that.
4. You mentioned he compliments your body and not your soul, that's because this is the part of yourself you encourage him to compliment (Reffering back to my earlier posts on finding a deep emotional and spiritual connection with him so he values you on higher levels)
My 2 Cs
Last edited by Mish; 07-11-05 at 05:38 AM.
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