No sex after getting married...

[clynn]

and now i dont know why guys and girls like eachother.
thankyouverymuch.

Ha ha lilwing! Good one. I always wonder this too!
I think it is a cruel joke God plays on humanity that makes men and women biologically compatible and yet so incompatible in many other ways.

[clynn]

Man I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I've been married over 10 years and the sex is better.

This is very encouraging!!!!

[Tone]

This is very encouraging!!!!

Yeah, except for the fact he encourages/lets his wife stick her finger and toys in his assh*le.

[vashti]

He's right, though. Married sex IS better...

[toohot4pants]

He's right, though. Married sex IS better...

how come? why? how?

[vashti]

Well, think about it. You have sex with the same person regularly, so you lose all your inhibitions (I guess this is more a problem for women, for whom what is going on inside their heads is at least as important as what is going on with their bodies). You also get to know exactly what your partner likes or dislikes, so (for the man) he gets to feel like an "expert". It's a bit of a boost to ones self-esteem, I guess, to know that you can please your partner when someone else would have to learn how to do it.

[Lloyd95]

Well, think about it. You have sex with the same person regularly,

Um...this is an argument for why married sex is worse.

[toohot4pants]

Well, think about it. You have sex with the same person regularly, so you lose all your inhibitions (I guess this is more a problem for women, for whom what is going on inside their heads is at least as important as what is going on with their bodies). You also get to know exactly what your partner likes or dislikes, so (for the man) he gets to feel like an "expert". It's a bit of a boost to ones self-esteem, I guess, to know that you can please your partner when someone else would have to learn how to do it.

so...like...isn't that the same as relationship sex? when you've had sex with the same girl for a while? say 6 months? a year? 2 years?

i thought you were saying there's something particular about having sex after marriage...like maybe the commitment factor makes it more something or blah blah blah...

but you gotta figure...marriage/relationship sex also runs the risk of getting predictable and boring at times...or less passionate...less spontaneous...

[Tone]

but you gotta figure...marriage/relationship sex also runs the risk of getting predictable and boring at times...or less passionate...less spontaneous...

Only if you let it.

[vashti]

Another benefit to married sex is that after you have your family, the woman can go off the pill (sex drive killer) and the husband can have a vasectomy. Also, women tend to hit their sexual peak in their 30s, an age when they are often married.

[Rosebud]

Makes sense to me!

[TAVS]

Another benefit to married sex is that after you have your family, the woman can go off the pill (sex drive killer) and the husband can have a vasectomy. Also, women tend to hit their sexual peak in their 30s, an age when they are often married.

Aint nobody clippin anything on me.

[vashti]

Aint nobody clippin anything on me.

Chicken!

Really, it's no big deal. My husband had a vasectomy before he met me, had it reversed, and had it done again after I had my kids. The reversal WAS a big deal, but even still, he coached his baseball team two days later.

[Tone]

How much does it cost?

[alice]

How much does it cost?

a lot less than raising a child.