Originally Posted by
anonymous_a
First of all, stop listening to these people who say that you are shallow based on how you take pictures, how you dress, or how you wear your hair. These things do not make someone shallow, or a bad person. Second of all, I do not believe that the way you dress will only attract a certain type of person, and even if it does, who's to say that this type of person is bad?
I wear make up and hair extensions, and I dye my hair, I also take penny of selfies and my boyfriend is kind, sweet, generous, loving and extremely respectful. He also comes from a very nice family.
As far as your looks go, you are pretty, but I wouldn't say beautiful. If you want to stay blonde, try doing something a little more natural, like highlights and lowlights. Your make up is fine, do what makes YOU feel good. I wear make up, not because I have to, but because I enjoy doing so.
Stop worrying so much about what strangers think, and worry more about what the people around you think. Be kind and generous and thoughtful. Spread positivity and smiles. Be gentle and loving. All of this, plus some confidence in yourself, and you'll be just fine.