The age old question: men with girlfriends and porn : please help

[smackie9]

F uck you guys sure can mess up a thread.

[searock]

The question has already been answered... many times. No harm in talking about something else.

[HDBadger]

Here's the simple explanation: Women who have problems with their BFs watching porn are the same women who can't wrap their heads around the fact that we will always find more than one woman attractive. We might not cheat, but we will always look at other women. We will always think sexually about other women. We will always jerk off thinking about other women. Thems are just the facts.

[searock]

Here's the simple explanation: Women who have problems with their BFs watching porn are the same women who can't wrap their heads around the fact that we will always find more than one woman attractive. We might not cheat, but we will always look at other women. We will always think sexually about other women. We will always jerk off thinking about other women. Thems are just the facts.

This isn't really an explanation, it's just saying "it is how it is".

Anyway, I've never understood women who can't accept that simple fact - I mean, it's not like us women don't do the same exact things. It's just natural, it doesn't mean we don't love our partners or aren't attracted to them.

[michelle23]

We might not cheat

There's a big difference between looking and touching. Research shows men who watch a lot of porn crave more variety and are more likely to cheat so its understandable why some women have a problem with it

[Wakeup]

There's a big difference between looking and touching. Research shows men who watch a lot of porn crave more variety and are more likely to cheat so its understandable why some women have a problem with it

Please site your "research" and provide a link to back up that statement.

[michelle23]

http://www.datingadvice.com/studies/picrwv

http://www.covenanteyes.com/2010/07/06/the-effects-of-pornography-on-wives-and-marriages/

[Wakeup]

http://www.datingadvice.com/studies/picrwv

Where are the results? How many were in the study? How many actually cheated? How long did the study go on for? WTF? Did the rest of the article not show up or it just wasn't printed?

http://www.covenanteyes.com/2010/07/06/the-effects-of-pornography-on-wives-and-marriages/

This is a fking blog by someone that has your mindset.

Michelle, luv. FFS quit reading drivel and taking it is as respectible sources. If you're going to read things like you've just provided then for goodness sakes keep in mind that the word "may" as in "may cause this" and don't repeat it as if it's scientific research that will be affecting ALL men/women.

Research shows men who watch a lot of porn crave more variety and are more likely to cheat so its understandable why some women have a problem with it

This goes back to stating something as if you are an expert. Neither of those "articles/blogs" is research.

Here's another "blog" from that site titled: 6 Marks of Biblical Modesty: How God Brings Sexy Back Maybe look for a site with a little less religious bias?

Thank you for providing YOUR sources, it explains a lot, actually.

[michelle23]

I didn't. I was giving MY personal opinion. I don't read any of this crap in general. You asked for a link, I found you one. SMH

[Wakeup]

Oh. My. GOD.

lolzzz

Thank you for providing YOUR sources, it explains a lot, actually.

[michelle23]

That last link I provided says it too with the American sociologist.

[HDBadger]

This isn't really an explanation, it's just saying "it is how it is"

No. It's an explanation. It explains the OP's views on pornography and relationships. She is obviously one of the many women who doesn't get it.

As for her options, she can either deal with it or dump him.

[searock]

No. It's an explanation. It explains the OP's views on pornography and relationships. She is obviously one of the many women who doesn't get it.

It's not an explanation for the "it" that she doesn't get, which was the question of this thread. You explained "it" by saying "it's just the way it is, she can deal with it or dump him". Which I don't disagree with, btw... it's just not an explanation.

[smackie9]

The question has already been answered... many times. No harm in talking about something else.

Start your own thread then.

[searock]

I don't think it's necessary, the conversation shifted and we just went along with it.