I will be losing my virginity in 4 days. Tips?

[tooxshort]

i did something kinda similar, but not really.

No, Miso, not really ...

[boobaa]

People use each other all the time, its just that sometimes we don't know it.

[Cain]

i did something kinda similar, but not really. i dated this guy for a while who was always going off with other girls. he played me like a freakin chess game.

then i found out he had a girlfriend. and i was so hurt. (this was the almost ten years ago misombra btw.) anyway yeah, i was so upset with him.

so one night i decided to call him over. i just wanted to see if he'd hook up with me behind his girlfriends back. i think i wanted to prove it to myself that he was a total jerk. not that i didn't have my proof before, but i wanted to get back at him.

i didn't do it with him. but we came close, and i left. he would've done it. i didn't need to take it further to make sure. i laughed as i went home. i don't know why, i just felt better.

Not at all. You didn't do anything and you didn't lead him on. O2C actually led this girl on... led her to believe that he still had all these feelings for her... telling her shit like he couldn't think about any girl but her. Then right when he got off... he makes her leave.

And then he blames it on her hurting his emotions for a year because she wouldn't go back out with him.

[Cain]

People use each other all the time, its just that sometimes we don't know it.

While that may be true, there's still no justification for the hurt this guy put on this girl.

[anachronistic]

While that may be true, there's still no justification for the hurt this guy put on this girl.

So let the boy figure it out for himself. It's not worth getting your nuts tangled in a net for.

[vashti]

??

I don't think he was doing anything more than saying it was a crappy move. And, it was.

[anachronistic]

Yeah it was a crappy move. But this Cain guy is talking about justification. We can't do anything to justify it, so let's not even go there; that's what I am saying.

In my humble opinion, if collegeboy does not want to listen, we should not waste our valuable time trying to reiterate his lost values.

[Cain]

Yeah it was a crappy move. But this Cain guy is talking about justification. We can't do anything to justify it, so let's not even go there; that's what I am saying.

In my humble opinion, if collegeboy does not want to listen, we should not waste our valuable time trying to reiterate his lost values.

It's not our job to justify it. It's his.

[boobaa]

This whole issue is not our problem.

[DoesntMatter]

I want my first time to be with boobaa

[boobaa]

I'll let you eat my cum.

[someonelse]

The saddest part is the O2C guy has himself so convinced that he did the right thing. Dumb ass doesn't even realize it. From the first post had everyone going on how much he liked this girl. Then shows the real dumb ass that he is. Another sad thing is his BS will work on another inexperienced girl who would be like oh he cares about me and bam no he doesn't. This is why girls play hard to get and don't fall for this BS. This is why it's hard for women to beleive a guy when he just says he cares. O2C in the end Karma is a bitch and she's gonna getcha.

[misombra]

eh, i've seen people do far worse things than what this guy did.

[Cain]

eh, i've seen people do far worse things than what this guy did.

Of course guys have done worse. Some guys have raped and then killed the girl they screwed. That doesn't make what he did any less wrong.

[tooxshort]

Of course guys have done worse. Some guys have raped and then killed the girl they screwed. That doesn't make what he did any less wrong.

Whooooaaa!! Dude, you just said that what O2C did was NOT less wrong than wrong raping and killing a girl! haha