How can I avoid oral sex?

[buzwiz]

`but when he gets back home and we talk on the phone or online he kind of sounds too detached.`

i know the exact feeling there, has he aways been `detached` online/phone or is it becoming more so as time passes by?

Personally i would watchout for this guy he sounds like a bit of a player and is only after the sexual interaction.

before you give oral or anything again you need to develop a relationship with this guy which is strong enough for you to beable to openly talk about ANYTHING. If you dont do this sooner rather than later this relationship will not last and you will end up getting hurt

edied: didnt read all the posts, glad youve stoody up to this guy well done

[Tommy]

Men play at LOVE for sex.... Woman play at sex for LOVE...

Guy is a weasel, and never really loved you. He loved the idea of you doing everything he wanted.

[Ekips]

A healthy relationship requires oral sex. Just tell him to take a shower before, or hell, do it in the shower.

Same applies for both sides.

[Only-virgins]

Men play at LOVE for sex.... Woman play at sex for LOVE...

Thats pretty good actually. Though you can look for love in the wrong places while sex...where ever the hell you get it..is always sex.