I really don't understand what I'm supposed to do. I keep trying and trying things and while I'm talking to a new girl or out doing something I enjoy I'm happy and fine. Once I get rejected though it just throws me back down again. For the record I kind of am failing at life. Very few friends, no female attention, etc. Nobody seems to respect me for just being a good person even though I try pretty hard at that.
I've learned plenty of things. Don't facebook stalk girl's numbers. Don't freaking ask girls for facebook or emails, get their numbers. Don't ask out every single girl you talk to. Not every girl that has a conversation with you is interesting in you. Try complimenting girls with no intention of asking them out. Don't apologize about things, let them go and act like it never happened if I see that person again.
I've been trying new things. I signed up for a free eHarmony thing (even though I protested initially) and I didn't get any matches at all within 200 miles. Hell, I went to a bar for the first time ever and had a decent time (although in retrospect I think I might have blown an opportunity with a girl, I might see her around campus though since she takes classes in the same building). I can keep trying but like I've already said after trying and trying and trying for so long I'm just getting worn down, exhausted. In fact, taking a break from even trying to get a girlfriend for a long time a few years ago actually helped me out some because I wasn't constantly having rejections/screwups to throw me back down. And, like I've already said, having a girlfriend isn't the problem per se, it's that I'm almost out of college and haven't ever had one. Hell, some girl I knew tried to set me up with a girl a few months ago and even though I was on the edge about her being attractive I was going to give it a shot just because I never did that and I thought at the very least I could get this "I've never had a girlfriend this is pathetic" obstacle out of the way.
Am I just supposed to develop a "I don't give a shit" attitude so all these rejections and people blowing me off don't piss me off so bad? You all seem like competent intelligent people, can't you tell me what to do instead of having to see a therapist about it?
Also, I don't know why everyone is acting like I'm some mental case who is way too upset about not having a girl. I ended up hanging out with a friend of mine from high school last night and he brought the subject up and told me about how he hadn't had any success in like two years and how frustrated he was that all the time he spent on online dating sites amounted to nothing.