Anal penetration for men

[Kiechi]

What if all of your suspicions were true, BJ? What if he really is more interested in dicks than in having sex with you, and is just staying with you for the hundred or so reasons people have for staying with someone that isn't their fantasy person? If he's secretly gay, are you sure you wouldn't reject or judge him?

Newsflash: MOST people are not involved in long-term relationships with their fantasy lover. Every day I come home to find that my boyfriend is NOT George Clooney, once again.

Newsflash: People who commit themselves to long-term relationships are expected to be fully open and honest about themselves right from the start. If not, then why commit? It totally goes against the entire foundation of having a relationship. No doubt there will be strain at the end of the road, but maybe if he was more open with himself and his S.O, she may of had been given the chance to come to terms with his sexuality and maybe even be able to accept it. However, she wasn't given this oppourtunity and is entirely not at fault in that regard.

Though I do think you're beating round the bush a little too much BJ, you should set an example and be straight with him, unlike he has with you.

Edit: ^ No pun intended haha.

[squirrley]

BarbaraJean,

This is a bad situation just getting worse the more I read with new info coming in. Of course youre almost completely dependant on him. Thats whats sad.

There HAS got to be something going on with the x. Thats utter bullshit he's contacting her for those reasons. You dont know whats going on there and you may never know. He doesnt open up to you and confide in you.

Honestly, he has something going on with himself that he's not comfortable telling you. That kinda thing just pisses me off. I know of things my husband has not yet told me and I do hold that inside. Ive confronted him and he just says he's not comfortable talking about it and wants to leave it in the past. But I feel hurt he doesnt share those things with me.

I suggest you talk to him, put it ALL OUT on the table. You cant hold things back and bury them under the rug, things will build up and cause havoc down the road. If you truly love this guy you have to be aggresive and not passive in your thoughts.

I truly think you also need to find some independance. Its not healthy to rely on someone for EVERYTHING. Get yourself in a position to be able to support yourself and your child. You wouldnt be the first single mom. I did it for 16 yrs.

[Gigabitch]

Newsflash: People who commit themselves to long-term relationships are expected to be fully open and honest about themselves right from the start.

How often do you think this actually occurs?

[squirrley]

It NEVER HAPPENS! Because some people are insecure with themselves. Im living it now. I was open about everything when we got together. But he isnt open with me even after 3 years.

Its just not realistic to think your SO is going to tell you EVERYTHING right up front. Youd think it should be that way and I think it should be that way, but it just doesnt work that way.

[Junket]

Being open and honest right from the start is a recipe for disaster.

[Kiechi]

How often do you think this actually occurs?

Obviously not as often as I thought.

[Charlie Boy II]

Normally sane people seem to be giving rather odd advice in this thread. Barb dump the cunt. He doesn't belong with you. He belongs in Thailand.

[Kaius]

A healthy straight man doesn't look at shemale (gay) porn. I don't think men enjoy being penetrated there. Licking around the area feels great, but no fingering!! I would be really surprised if a straight man admits to enjoying receiving anal sex.

[all alone]

dude.. this thread has been dead for 2 yrs lol

[CAM]

A healthy straight man doesn't look at shemale (gay) porn. I don't think men enjoy being penetrated there. Licking around the area feels great, but no fingering!! I would be really surprised if a straight man admits to enjoying receiving anal sex.

Some guys are pretty weird about some of this stuff. I lived with a married student couple in college (rented out their basement). He was in most of my classes in my major; she was in another major. He was a totally buff dude, a bit of a "pretty boy" who spent most of his time cheating on his wife with other women. If he wasn't cheating, he was at the gym with a former college football player.

One time, the wife came down to the basement to talk with me about her husband--told me that she was concerned because her husband was asking for rimjobs and the finger insertion. She said what really concerned her was that their previous tenant was a gay guy and she wondered if maybe her husband and the former tenant had been more than friends. She asked if I knew anything that might help her understand her husband (note: I'd known him through college before he married her). I didn't know anything.

Then, something weird happened. I was at the gym one day and the husband was also at the gym. When I was drying off in the locker room later, he walked up behind me and whispered in my ear. I turned around, and he was standing there, buck naked. He said, "I noticed that you were doing squats today." He pointed to his very muscular legs and said, "You want to touch them?"

It was right then that I knew that his wife was on to his gay tendencies.

The basis of her suspicion was obviously very similar to the OP.

PS NO, I did not accept his invitation. Actually, I punched him in the throat and it was interesting to see the black and blue mark the next day...it looked like a mega giant hickey. I was all set to move out, but ended up finishing school that semester and left.

[lilly1185]

I CAN CONTRIBUTE!
I had a s/o that had a plethora of relationships. He liked to cheat, too. He also was into the whole shemale venue. I'd even gone so far (per his request) to buck up to the strap-on scenario.
>.> never again. I dislike anal in all it's forms. It just IS NOT for me.
My ex also liked to wear my lingerie. It's frustrating when a MAN looks better in your sexy things than you do. He could actually be a pretty convincing woman, too.
Step away before things get really, really weird.

[doppelgaenger]

Some guys are pretty weird about some of this stuff. I lived with a married student couple in college (rented out their basement). He was in most of my classes in my major; she was in another major. He was a totally buff dude, a bit of a "pretty boy" who spent most of his time cheating on his wife with other women. If he wasn't cheating, he was at the gym with a former college football player.

One time, the wife came down to the basement to talk with me about her husband--told me that she was concerned because her husband was asking for rimjobs and the finger insertion. She said what really concerned her was that their previous tenant was a gay guy and she wondered if maybe her husband and the former tenant had been more than friends. She asked if I knew anything that might help her understand her husband (note: I'd known him through college before he married her). I didn't know anything.

Then, something weird happened. I was at the gym one day and the husband was also at the gym. When I was drying off in the locker room later, he walked up behind me and whispered in my ear. I turned around, and he was standing there, buck naked. He said, "I noticed that you were doing squats today." He pointed to his very muscular legs and said, "You want to touch them?"

It was right then that I knew that his wife was on to his gay tendencies.

The basis of her suspicion was obviously very similar to the OP.

PS NO, I did not accept his invitation. Actually, I punched him in the throat and it was interesting to see the black and blue mark the next day...it looked like a mega giant hickey. I was all set to move out, but ended up finishing school that semester and left.

What a great story, man.

[qwertz]

. Licking around the area feels great, but no fingering!!

I just gagged.

Some guys are pretty weird about some of this stuff. I lived with a married student couple in college (rented out their basement). He was in most of my classes in my major; she was in another major. He was a totally buff dude, a bit of a "pretty boy" who spent most of his time cheating on his wife with other women. If he wasn't cheating, he was at the gym with a former college football player.

One time, the wife came down to the basement to talk with me about her husband--told me that she was concerned because her husband was asking for rimjobs and the finger insertion. She said what really concerned her was that their previous tenant was a gay guy and she wondered if maybe her husband and the former tenant had been more than friends. She asked if I knew anything that might help her understand her husband (note: I'd known him through college before he married her). I didn't know anything.

Then, something weird happened. I was at the gym one day and the husband was also at the gym. When I was drying off in the locker room later, he walked up behind me and whispered in my ear. I turned around, and he was standing there, buck naked. He said, "I noticed that you were doing squats today." He pointed to his very muscular legs and said, "You want to touch them?"

It was right then that I knew that his wife was on to his gay tendencies.

The basis of her suspicion was obviously very similar to the OP.

PS NO, I did not accept his invitation. Actually, I punched him in the throat and it was interesting to see the black and blue mark the next day...it looked like a mega giant hickey. I was all set to move out, but ended up finishing school that semester and left.

hahahahhahahahahaha That is so funny!!!!

[Sanctuary]

I haven't read the rest of this thread but when a girl fingers my ass during a blowjob, it feels great. I'm pretty sure if every guy experienced it, almost all of them would like it.

[lilly1185]

I haven't read the rest of this thread but when a girl fingers my ass during a blowjob, it feels great. I'm pretty sure if every guy experienced it, almost all of them would like it.

I'm sorry, but I just can NOT get over that "entering an exit" thing.