Originally Posted by
Severed_Heart
1) Work out, get a bit of mass, then wear more form fitting clothes. Ditch the jerseys, that's just to casual and unless your playing basketball or going to watch a game somewhere, its not really ghetto, but its just not flattering and shows no creativity on your part.
2) Try going without the glasses. I think it would do a lot because it would take focus away from your ears, the stereotype of a nerd is a guy with glasses and big ears, right? So, destroy the stereotype, become a guy who happens to have strange ears but who is otherwise a fun loving, sociable guy.
3) Don't worry about the ears, I think many women would find them cute and poke fun at them in a playful, not malicious way. Your otherwise not an unattractive guy.
4) Go for the ear surgery if it bothers you, unlike plastic surgery it will be a permanent thing and there is nothing wrong with doing it. My teeth are ****ed up, if I had the money I would fix them, theres nothing wrong with that.
5) Realize that attraction is not created entirely by looks, clothes, or whatever. Women are attracted to men who exhibit alpha male characteristics, who have social status, who are successful, ambitious, and comfortable with you they are. Your not comfortable, and they can tell. Many women will deny this, and say they want a nice guy and whatever, but trust me, being intelligent, funny, witty, caring, a good listener, compassionate, romantic, chivalrous and good in bed never got women interested in me, it only helped me keep them around after they were attracted to me and after we hooked up.
Good luck.