Would you date a "working girl"

[Cain]

Cain, I think the choking fetish may be a little on the rare side... If someone choked me during sex, I'd chop his weiner off while he was sleeping.

It's not like she passes out. Sometimes she just likes a little choking in between thrusts.

I've got to win this girl back.

[lesa]

It's not like she passes out. Sometimes she just likes a little choking in between thrusts.

I've got to win this girl back.

To me, it doesn't seem healthy for a victim of multiple rapes to truly enjoy that sort of thing such as roleplaying, choking, and dirty names calling. It may be a psychological issue that needs to be addressed.

[Cain]

To me, it doesn't seem healthy for a victim of multiple rapes to truly enjoy that sort of thing such as roleplaying, choking, and dirty names calling. It may be a psychological issue that needs to be addressed.

The choking thing didn't happen often. I'd say maybe once every 12-15 sessions... and the choking wasn't anything big.

She did enjoy dirty name calling and dirty talking and she did enjoy roleplaying. A lot of women like those two things. It's not like we're re-enacting rape scenes.

[Only-virgins]

No, not date raped.

She was raped when she was younger, 13 and 15 I believe. Walking home... grabbed... raped.

Where the hell did she live?

Elsa, some guys prefer the woman have at least a *little* experience because virgins don't know what they are doing and require special handling.

Lies. Most guys just accept a non virgin as hot ones are so rare so they make up these lame excuses , I prefer a chick that wasn't used and abused over some super experienced slut.

[Cain]

Where the hell did she live?

She didn't live in some really bad area. I didn't ask for the details. We talked about it and I wanted to drop the conversation because the rapes really did mess with her head a little bit. There would be times we'd be having sex and then she'd actually have a flashback to the rape (and I'm talking that we were just going doggy or missionary... nothing kinky) and she'd actually start to cry... so I'd immediately stop and spend the next hour just holding her and comforting her.

[Only-virgins]

She didn't live in some really bad area. I didn't ask for the details. We talked about it and I wanted to drop the conversation because the rapes really did mess with her head a little bit. There would be times we'd be having sex and then she'd actually have a flashback to the rape (and I'm talking that we were just going doggy or missionary... nothing kinky) and she'd actually start to cry... so I'd immediately stop and spend the next hour just holding her and comforting her.

I would dump her.

[Cain]

I would dump her.

Good for you.

I'm not going to dump a girl because of things that happened to her in her past.

[Only-virgins]

Good for you.

I'm not going to dump a girl because of things that happened to her in her past.

Cool, I on the other hand want fun and happiness and don't want someones emotional baggage thrown at me. Though I'm kind of yanking your chain, I though you would get more offended than that lol.

[Cain]

Cool, I on the other hand want fun and happiness and don't want someones emotional baggage thrown at me. Though I'm kind of yanking your chain, I though you would get more offended than that lol.

Nah. There's no reason for me to really get offended by it. She and I might not even get back together.

It's not like she's an emotional wreck all the time. She just has her moments. When we're together, we really do have so much fun together. There's only been a few times that we've had sex that she's ended up crying... I'd say probably 5 out of the at least 50 times. And it's understandable. She had an ex that made her have sex with him even if she didn't want to... and that was as recent as I believe three years ago.

I really do love this girl and that's the ONLY reason I'm willing to put up with what I've put up with so far, because I know that in time, she's going to get over everything that's happened to her emotionally and I want to be there when it happens.

[elsa20]

I would dump her.

you're cruel! guess you've nver loved any girl or you wouldn't have said that

[elsa20]

and your appearance won't let me down? well let me be the judge of that

my photos are never for free,man heyhey

[Only-virgins]

you're cruel! guess you've nver loved any girl or you wouldn't have said that

I've loved. Though in-fact it is women who always say that love is not enough. Is love enough to drop all standards?

[shh!]

you're cruel! guess you've nver loved any girl or you wouldn't have said that

He's still smitten with his Jr. High School crush.

[Only-virgins]

He's still smitten with his Jr. High School crush.

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[anachronistic]

my photos are never for free,man heyhey

You think you're that special huh?