GF Messed Around When I Dumped Her

[Emerald_Dreams]

B ut you don't actually MAKE an argument when you post a link without comment.

What argument was I making? I was just pointing out logical fallacies he made. Then he went on this big huge red herring tangent like a toddler "You can't make me click it! Neener neener neener!"

Nobody can argue you are right or wrong when you don't say anything. That is not a red herring.

What are you trying to argue anyway? So far you haven't said anything relevant to the topic or the debate between me and Incognito. In addition, he was referring to all my links, not just one particular example you've decided to tunnel vision on. Or maybe you missed that too?

[girl68]

Jesus, STILL..............

[vashti]

I hope this insecurity of yours doesn't rear its ugly head in other areas of your relationship, lawman. It's bound to destroy you in time, if you don't get a hold of yourself.

EmeraldDreams is right about one thing: if you can't get over this, you need to break up. She has a right to have a relationship with someone less insecure, and more emotionally healthy (assuming she is unaware of this shortcoming).

[lawman11]

Guys, thanks for all the input. I am definitely coming down on the side of pursing this relationship. This is the only negative in the whole thing. What if I were to dump her? Next time the woman says that she once had a wild weekend fling with a guy in a Stones cover band. In that scenario, every time I hear Under My Thumb I flee the relationship? Another setting: I woman I am crazy about and I get talking about crazy past encounters, and she tells me that she was once dating a major league baseball player and he banged her in the dugout after a game. Now ever time I smell popcorn or hear the crack of a bat I go all insecure and run away? No, this is something I've always struggled with and will continue to struggle with unless I work it out. Also, this is not exactly an obsession. It comes up occasionally, and it bothers me immensely, but fades. I will keep you posted. Plus, guys, I didn't dump her very nicely. I just stopped calling. She was devastated: called and texted me periodically the whole time we were apart asking what went wrong. She called this fling her "salve" for a broken heart. I am a real asshole to even be complaining about it, I truly think.

[girl68]

I just hope these women are not so stupid to tell you this in the first place. And you certainly better not be asking!