Oh yes.. He'd say it just like that .. Like when we were watching TV and a skinny tanned blonde appears ... He'll say " you really should get yourself some tan, you look so pale!"
I'd say " Seriously?! Do you think I'm pale?"
Him " I don't THINK so love! It's obvious"
Me" and were I pale when we first met?"
Him" I really don't know, stop making a big deal out of nothing... Blah blah ... You just ruin .. Blah .. Blah"
That jerky behaviour started during the last year of our relationship....
Maybe he always found it a lot sexier to stick his tongue into the mouth of some tanned blonde tart...