I had sex with my brothers bestfriend

[Tone]

#1 - It's not very ladylike
#2 - Drugs and alcohol got you into this mess in the first place, why support them in your sig?
#3 - It makes it hard for people to read your posts, see your sig at the end, and for them to take you serious.

[LeahSueDolton]

ok i will change it

[Junsui]

hmmm y'all, are you from the south?

[LeahSueDolton]

no i am from kansas

[Debunkt]

The ridiculousness of this thread is beyond all comprehension.

I feel sorry for leahsuedolton for one reason: She obvisouly, truly believes she was raped. She does not see how she got HERSELF into such a situation, made very little attempt to stop, and now feels nothing but sorry for herself. I'm sorry, but I refuse to feel sorry for someone who was high, drunk, and both while around her brothers. Nobody says "we f*cked, all over the place, in the ass, and he ate me out, blah blah blah" and can then possibly claim rape of any kind. just NO. If anybody actually cares about you, it should be your brothers and family. They aren't going to care if Jake's their friend, because if he "raped" their little sister he won't be for long. I don't know what is so hard about standing up for yourself. YOU WENT TO US. If I know who the hell you were, and where you lived, I'd call the police department in your area and tell them what you've told us. Then they can decide if it was rape. They can also decide that you were a minor in possession of, as well as under the influence of, drugs and alcohol. OH WAIT! Maybe that's why you won't tell anyone! Maybe you're just scared of taking responsibility for yourself. I'm sorry, but I don't see you changing your ways. You should, but I don't think you will. It won't matter. One day Jake will tell your brothers that he had sex with you, and they'll probably laugh, because they're high, and you'll continued to get walked on. I know you're young, but SHIT, its not like you can't stand up for yourself, help yourself out, do SOMETHING. Ugh.

Go talk to Oprah.

[NeoSeminole]

<<snaps fingers>> You go Debunkt!!!

[LeahSueDolton]

I think Debunkt is right. I don't know what else to say

[whaywardj]

Hm. She's come online with this unbelievably depraved story to tell. Gone away not caring, she says. Come back. Gone away again not caring. That's remarkably like a pattern of someone trying to get somewhere she's having trouble reaching. Maybe we should give her little breathing/speaking room before hammering her down any further.

[Rosebud]

Hayward, are you going soft?? (you know what I mean)

[whaywardj]

Let me look.

[Tone]

PERVERT Rosebud!!

And yeah I agree with Hayward.. like I told Junsui, I'd much rather us offer this girl some serious help - and it turns out to be all a lie than to shun her away - and it turns out to be real.

[whaywardj]

Wow. Well put, Tone.

[Rosebud]

LOL... Am not!!

I can see where you guys are coming from but she changes her story like every 2 posts. I don't know maybe I'll just go sit on the couch and eat some popcorn and wait and see what happens...

[Junsui]

And like I told you, we told her what we think she should do. I don't know what other option she is looking for from us. I understand she doesn't want to get in trouble for doing things that are illegal, but she has to inform someone who has the ability to do something, like a parent or trusted adult if she really wants help with this.

[whaywardj]

...I don't know what other option she is looking for from us...

Maybe just someone to listen with a somewhat sympathetic ear; if not some undertstanding and support.