I think you misinterpreted what I was saying.. I didnt mean that he SHOULD apologize.. but if he had I dont really think it woulda been wrong. I commend him for standing up for himself as she did deserve it.
In my case even though she kind of got defensive on me and avoided my inquiries (which she has a right to do)... However, I was still being obsessive, immature, and a jerkl. That is not cool on my part. As much as it hurts me, I would rather know that its over but on good terms than on bad terms. And she didnt deserve what i said despite how much she hurt me.