Is it 'okay' to seek a sex partner if spouse is forever severely disabled/incapable

[misombra]

Should I just not post in any thread more than once?

lol no i just like to pick on you.

it's all love.

[Junket]

it's all love.

For his cock.

[Gribble]

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Were you trying to teach me something? How can you teach me something I already knew?

I'm still wondering how you came to the conclusion that I feel sex is the most important aspect of a relationship.

Wait... you mean there are more aspects to a relationship than sex? Dude, that's some crazy talk if I ever heard it.

[littlewing]

I think it's quite possible to hold off to the sex desires at time like these

[DoesntMatter]

You know John Edwards was cheating on his wife while she suffered from cancer?

[lesa]

You know John Edwards was cheating on his wife while she suffered from cancer?

Yeah, I just saw that. It angers me. What a complete piece of scum (hehe) he is! Hearing that makes me sick. He will get his bad karma and the media is one of them.

NOTE: He was cheating (behind her back without her agreement)...it's different than what is discussed here.

[anachronistic]

Yeah, I just saw that. It angers me. What a complete piece of scum (hehe) he is! Hearing that makes me sick. He will get his bad karma and the media is one of them.

NOTE: He was cheating (behind her back without her agreement)...it's different than what is discussed here.

I think you're misinterpreting karma. The whole idea of it, is not that something will come around and bite you in the ass for all the bad things you do. Karma is the idea that everybody suffers. It is not a vengeful force.

[lesa]

I think you're misinterpreting karma. The whole idea of it, is not that something will come around and bite you in the ass for all the bad things you do. Karma is the idea that everybody suffers. It is not a vengeful force.

There are many different interpretations of karma. My example was one of them. It can be good or bad. What is this vengeful force you speak of? It's not revenge.

[claz nicolson]

is this a dilemna you face personally?

[lesa]

is this a dilemna you face personally?

We are on page 8 of this thread and no one asked this question.

[lesa]

is this a dilemna you face personally?

I'm being dramatic. To answer your question. It is not about me.

[Cain]

We are on page 8 of this thread and no one asked this question.

Because he doesn't know you or your relationship situation.

[lesa]

Because he doesn't know you or your relationship situation.

You are right Cain. I wasn't thinking for a second, lol. It seemed so sweet that he asked...it surprised me. But he doesn't know me like the regular forum members.

[anachronistic]

There are many different interpretations of karma. My example was one of them. It can be good or bad. What is this vengeful force you speak of? It's not revenge.

You're right. The way I've described it, though, I think is very correct.

By vengeful force, I mean, people think that karma is a force in nature that acts on wrong-doing. I.E. If I kill you, someone will come kill me... or something like that. Karma's not like that. It's just the idea that everybody suffers. It implies that there is no balance, or symmetry in things.

What do you think? Do you really think that something bad is going to happen to you for everything you do wrong?

[Junket]

You are right Cain. I wasn't thinking for a second, lol. It seemed so sweet that he asked...it surprised me. But he doesn't know me like the regular forum members.

That's why I only pose serious personal inquiries in the hidden forum, away from all the idiots that don't know jack shit about me.