Who is more shallow men or women?

[Gribble]

Gribble says:

"Ugly dudes get laid way more than ugly chicks."

no way, bro. An ugly chick just has to put out easily and guys will still f*ck her. Plus she can always wear makeup to go from a 3/10 to a 5/10. Guys have no such luck.

You know what? Now that I think about it, I have to concede. They can get laid if they are willing to utterly degrade themselves.

[Mish]

Though utterly degrading themselves just to get laid doesn't make them any kind of a winner.


I used to think men have it much harder than women because they have to put a lot of work into not getting rejected, until I had a chance to talk to a lot of women about their experiences. You'd think that because men put a lot of work into putting themselves out there and get rejected often they get laid less than women, but the opposite is true. Despite of the hardship men on average still get laid a lot more than women and don't have to put up with the social stigma that comes with being a slut like women do. I've known some gorgeous looking women, 9 out of 10s and their sex lives aren't as spectacular as most people would imagine. Some average looking guy who just keeps trying to get laid until someone says yes has a lot more happening in his sex life than a really beautiful woman.

Also, the goals are different. Guys are usually just looking to get laid and rarely look beyond that achievement. Women are more inclined to find a keeper. A much more difficult task that requires a lot more foresight and intuition.

[NeoSeminole]

[Primo]

Mish, you seem like a good kid and all, your heart's in the right place, but I have to say those knight pics make me laugh everytime I see them

[doppelgaenger]

touche.

[NeoSeminole]

what am I suppose to be looking at?

[IndiReloaded]

Despite of the hardship men on average still get laid a lot more than women and don't have to put up with the social stigma that comes with being a slut like women do.

I confess to being confused by this logic. If men are getting laid, then so are women? Unless the men are gay or they are all having sex with the same few women?

Surely the more likely conclusion is that men & women are both screwing the same amount but women are hiding it? Helped by the fact that there's a good fraction of men who are discreet?

[NeoSeminole]

I've never heard of men having a higher number of sexual partners on avg than women. The way I understand it, more women than men have had sex but this is balanced out by those select men having more sexual partners since they more desirable by women.

[Mish]

I confess to being confused by this logic. If men are getting laid, then so are women? Unless the men are gay or they are all having sex with the same few women?

The guys I was referring to (and some that I know) are having sex with the same few slutty girls.

Personally I've met very few women who take pride in screwing multiple random people. Though I met a lot of guys who admit to that being their personal life goal.

[BoredGeorge]

I've never heard of men having a higher number of sexual partners on avg than women. The way I understand it, more women than men have had sex but this is balanced out by those select men having more sexual partners since they more desirable by women.

This is the truth. Women have way more partners.

[BoredGeorge]

Okay.

For men.

You can be moderately attractive and you WILL have a hard time finding a relationship.

For Women.

You can be moderately attractive and you WILL get lots of men wanting to root you and be your boyfriend.

That is the difference.

[girl68]

^ BAHHHHH hahahahaha okay... I call your bullshit. Prove that.

[BoredGeorge]

^ BAHHHHH hahahahaha okay... I call your bullshit. Prove that.

What does ' I call your bullshit' mean. Sorry I don't speak American teenage girl.

[qwertz]

That isnt true george, at least not where i live!

edit: Ok, maybe guys want to have sex, but thats about it.

[chump4u]

Okay.

For men.
You can be moderately attractive and you WILL have a hard time finding a relationship.

For Women.
You can be moderately attractive and you WILL get lots of men wanting to root you and be your boyfriend.

That is the difference.

That isnt true george, at least not where i live!

edit: Ok, maybe guys want to have sex, but thats about it.

Oh, come on QWERTY, you don't have to say White just because George said Black.

Please.

Moderately attractive, even handsome men sometimes find it hard to break through womens' instinctive-rejection barrier; but modestly attractive women only need to stand still for a little while to have their choice of a dozen panting hopefuls.

That's a universal truth, except perhaps in countries where marriages are arranged and women are stuck with chaperons and burkas. Has GB become one of those?