Bored George's Discontent With Life/Women/Anything Thread

[girl68]

You're not honestly going to post about each rejection you get are you? It's going to happen a LOT. I'm not going to pad the truth for you. I've been asked out or for my number tons of times (in my 25 years- so not trying to be "ELLE"). And only a tiny handful have I given it out.

Rejection happens all the time, and often too. But if you play enough numbers eventually you'll score a few. Not to mention the more you ask, the more rejections you get the easier they become to handle.

You also have to keep in mind the kind of girls you're trying to score. If you're just an average joe, and you're hitting on the blonde bombshell- that's almost a gaurenteed NO right there. Also no padding the truth. You do have to be realistic with the girls you ask out too. There are nice, pretty girls that will say yes, but that smoking hot bombshell isn't going to be one of them.

[IndiReloaded]

Girl, I disagree.

If George posts about his experience and then gets feedback about how to improve *and actually incorporates some of the advice* then he will learn by successive approximation. Like a pigeon.

Anyway, George, mbe just post in Neo's thread instead of making a new one each time. Good compromise.

[Gribble]

Why? Because you think being tall, fit, strong and having a job is enough to get you a chick. They only facilitate the process.

[girl68]

If George posts about his experience and then gets feedback about how to improve *and actually incorporates some of the advice* then he will learn by successive approximation. Like a pigeon.

But he didn't even post anything about the experience, how he did it, what kind of girl she was, where was he, what does he look like, how did he act. If he did that and asked what to change, do next time, or whatever then fine. But he didn't.

[BoredGeorge]

Lol, or pay someone for some one nighters or something. But I'm pretty much in the same boat you are in, don't worry about it too much, sounds like your still young, you got plenty of time.

Not young I am 26.

[BoredGeorge]

Why? Because you think being tall, fit, strong and having a job is enough to get you a chick. They only facilitate the process.

I do other stuff...

I don't know what else to say. I put in heaps of effort and try to be a good person but at the end of it the girl will always back out.

[IndiReloaded]

But he didn't even post anything about the experience, how he did it, what kind of girl she was, where was he, what does he look like, how did he act. If he did that and asked what to change, do next time, or whatever then fine. But he didn't.

This is what I'm suggesting.

Got this^, George? Otherwise, I'm going to assume you're a troll and stop replying.

[flea]

If George posts about his experience and then gets feedback about how to improve *and actually incorporates some of the advice* then he will learn by successive approximation. Like a pigeon...

hahaha! like a pigeon, love it.



oh, and shut-up George, you're boring the crap out of me with your never-ending self-hatred diatribe. we all feel a little hopeless at some stage in our lives. 26 isn't old, and you have plenty of time.

I believe that if you come across anywhere where near as negative in person as you do in your posts, that is your major problem. posting threads about it over and over isn't going to help either, you need to take action. obviously peoples advice here isn't helping, so you need to seek out a new catalyst for change.


good luck with that..

[Mish]

George reminds me of one of my exs, maybe I should pair them up

All she did was talk about how no one likes her and she doesn't like anyone and how everything irritates her and she doesn't know what to do to change herself. It seemed like she didn't even want to change herself just keep on complaining about everything. And there was never a glimmer of hope just a sea of endless annoyance and irritation with no way out.

[Sanctuary]

George, to be completely honest, I think it might be your social skills.

I believe I've said these words before to you when I first joined this forum (I might be wrong): Go out and make some friends first so you get an idea of how to create and maintain relationships with people.

You have to learn to walk before you can run.

Though all that is much easier said than done.

[MVPlaya]

George, do you have friends? What does your social life consist of?

If I believe in global warming will girls start to like me ?

No, but you'll become a smarter person.

Also: the earth is older than 4,000 years. Fyi.

[CocoChanel]

26 is young. Psh.

[mevsme]

I said this in a previous forum, find something you love to do...a hobbie (what you love doing) you will attract a similar minded mate!

[thrillaveza]

i agree with indie, i think you should post more specific details in your situation. so then we can point out improvements, cause right now, i am assuming that your approach might have been too strong and that she got kind of creeped out with that or lost interest.

[FullofSighs]

Would you people stop flamming? I mean seriously, yes he could have added more info. But you still don't have to start fighting with each other over it. If it is not something that will benefit the thread maker and his question why post it at all? You should state is what you think he may have done wrong and how he can possibly fix it. But fighting over it is not gunna get yourself or the thread starter anywhere.

But thrill does have a point, maybe you jumped into it to fast, I do that too every now and then. Just have to train yourself not to do it.