Bothered by a guy (loooooong!!!)

[Perryville]

Qwert, I have some friends in the Army in the UK. They might be able to help.

[qwertz]

im not sure that'll be necessary, but thanks perry

[Perryville]

No prob, Qwert. I had a woman stalk me like this for about three months, and it was really worrisome. She even tried to talk to my kids about me, when I wasn't in the house to answer the phone. A total whack-job.

[qwertz]

i wouldnt say hes stalking me...just a bit obsessed lol. But today has been good and i havnt heard anything

[Jaylei]

I'd be investing in a handgun... lol

[Gigabitch]

im def no expert in this type of thing, but wouldnt it just be your regular harassment, not the sexual variety ?

Yes, it is. He was trying to date her.

i wouldnt say hes stalking me...

You'd be the only one. That guy is stalking you full-time.

[Only-virgins]

lol you sayin i write crap!!!?

Pretty much. I am sure whatever you wrote could have been written in 2 or 3 sentences.

[qwertz]

well you wouldnt know seeing as you never read it

[qwertz]

im too pissed off to write about what happened tonight but basically he was out at the party i went to tonight..invited by a so called friend. Im so pissed off i came home early.

[IndiReloaded]

Is your friend stupid or clueless? Good call leaving early. Angry stalker & alcohol not a good mix.

[Only-virgins]

im too pissed off to write about what happened tonight but basically he was out at the party i went to tonight..invited by a so called friend. Im so pissed off i came home early.

I bet you are enjoying the attention. Aren't you dating someone? Nothing like giving him a clue by being with someone else right?

Angry stalker & alcohol not a good mix.

You kidding me?! some of these situation made the best parties for me. Tomorrow I am having a party and one of my friends and his wife is coming by..he doesn't know his ex is coming by either....hooooo I can't wait....they are both my friends...I invite all my friends...come on of course I can't leave anyone out.

[qwertz]

Is your friend stupid or clueless? Good call leaving early. Angry stalker & alcohol not a good mix.

both i think

I bet you are enjoying the attention. Aren't you dating someone? Nothing like giving him a clue by being with someone else right?

Im single and no, im not enjoying the 'attention' ..i left as soon as i realised he was there. didnt make a big deal of it but came home instead. Im not enjoying it one bit.

[qwertz]

ive had a bunch of flowers left on my doorstep this evening..now unless i have a secret admirer(unlikely) im thinking it was him.
which just freaks me out that he has been to my house again.

[all alone]

of course its him.. man this guy seems really up and down.. potential manic depressive maybe?.. just seems like a wide range of actions from shouting and bitching at you, calling you hundreds of time. Plus he also seems to be somewhat delusional assuming that if you just 'went out to dinner with him' that you would change your mind.. your other friends really got to step up to the plate and put an end to this. Set him straight or get him wtv help he needs.

iunno, just a little theory.

[qwertz]

ha, not for 6 dogs, and plus I dont have dogs so they can be walked by someone else.

He's an idiot, i had given up writing about him as it just makes me mad!

I swear he followed me home the last 2 days, but cant be sure..apart from that, he hasnt done anything else.

He has stayed away from me at work- though he's had no choice as i have been in an area he doesnt have access to.