That's what I feel, although I must confessl; the other day when I mentioned it was "over" that wasn't in her words. I just said it myself because it's wasting my time with her, she didn't actually tell me to move on because like you said, she probably wants to be chased.
And to me it's insignificant but we did break up for a month back last year because I broke up with her, I wasn't getting any feeling from her so I thought she wasn't into me. In this time neither of us made any effort to move onto another person. But to go against what "heartisaching" said (in most cases they would be right) me ignoring her DOES make her not talk to me. During that month we didn't say a word to each other and when I finally said something before getting back together she said she never chases. She says if I don't want to talk she assumes I've moved on and it's not her business so there is no need for her to contact me. THAT is why I'm confused because after all I did come here looking for advice to fix our situation right?
To end the confusion, yes if she texts me I WILL respond but so bluntly that no girl would think I was being anything desperate or open. I just don't believe in her texting me and not answering her at all. That to me is rude and after the trust issues I caused it won't help anything to just give her nothing at all. It will only feed her opinion that I'm a man-whore assuming I'm already on the next girl and chose to never say anything else to her.
But, I'm not chasing her, I DO NOT text her, under any circumstance. I don't look at her instagram. For the 30th time she has no facebook for me to look at and she lives almost 45 minutes away from me so I don't see her by chance. And she has some of my clothes as well as gifts she bought me for my birthday, I am making no effort in retrieving either...and I really like the jeans she has there. I just don't want people thinking since I post her that I'm sitting on my knees weeping for her to come to me. Michelle I know you see my point, I'm just elaborating because this may seem misconstrued.