People notoriously use the internet as a way of picking people up.
He may also have been involved with more than just you. I have a friend who doesn't kiss other women when he's philandering, because "only if kissing is involved, it's cheating."
I for the life of me can't figure that one out,
but it may just be a weird set of guidelines he keeps so he can make himself feel better about what he's doing.
You bugging him on facebook and such, and him ignoring you is the equivalent of a drunk night out that you spend in some stranger's bed, and the first thing he says to you in the morning is "Why are you still here?"
Chalk it up to a lesson learned. At least you had fun, but
get tested and dust yourself off.
And next time, make him drive to you. If I'm expecting a level of commitment out of someone, why should I put my life and well being at risk to travel a HUGE distance when I could be raped or mugged along the way? Especially if I'm unfamiliar with the area. But that's just me.
Short side? Make a list of criteria.
Stick to your deal breakers,
and if there is a meeting, make sure you get more than a few hours of face time before knocking boots. You can usually tell just what a person is after if you don't get "lost in the moment".
Give me something I can take,
Can take to make the memories fade.
Poison kiss, remember this,
I never was meant for this day.