I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. We first met in college and just recently started dating. We are both 24 years old and were both each other's first relationship, first everything.
It is a longggggg distance relationship but we usually still managed to see each other twice a month. I've been having doubts in my mind whether he is truly the one for me for about 2 months now and the more I think about it the more I feel like we shouldn't be together anymore. but the thing is he is such a nice guy, treats me well and is the kind of guy I feel like it's hard to find anymore (loyal, doesn't screw around with girls, honest, truly loves me, trustworthy, etc).
I'm just confused and scared and lost. I honestly don't see a future with him because I don't think I'm willing to move across the country for him. A lot of the little things he does are starting to annoy me and I feel bad about it. They're literally the stupidest thing like the clothes he wears, the way he eats in public, the way he walks, etc. I feel like such a mean girlfriend for feeling like this but i don't even know why i'm feeling like this. my girlfriends told me it's my mind trying to convince me that i no longer want to be with him....is this true?
Sometimes I feel like I'm not in love with him anymore, maybe I'm just comfortable being with him and afraid to be alone. I also don't want to hurt him. He is so deeply in love with me and everyday he tells me he wants to be with me forever and never wants to lose me. I don't know how to tell him without hurting him. I'm also scared that if I break up with him that I will never find a guy that i'm this comfortable, this close with. How do I even meet people? I don't want to end up alone and I'm gonna be 25 soon and I've always wanted to settle down by 26. Where am I gonna find another relationship with so much history like this one
I'm so confused.....has anyone feel like this? Is it time to end this relationship?