Originally Posted by
theheiress
Hello everyone,
I need some male advice, obviously. I'm 25 and after about 3 or so weeks of knowing each other, a work colleague of mine starts sending me texts about he thinks I'm great and he can't stop thinking about me. However, he also writes he doesn't know what's going on with him, that he doesn't wanna bug me. I can't help but feel insecure myself due to his insecurity. I never really considered him a possible boyfriend (I'm not really looking for anyone right now and work people make it even more complicated) and so now I will see him again in 2 days and don't know what the hell I'm going to do. Any good advice guys????
Much appreciated
H
What are you saying here? That out of the blue he emails you and tells you all this like some obsessed stalker fanatic after only meeting you and just interacting at work or, have you actually been dating and now he is confessing his feelings after actually dating and seeing each other outside of work? (Whack either way, but one is way more whack then the other)
Keep your Human Resources extention number handy in case of emergency.
BTW: If you're not looking for a relationship and you think dating work collegues is inappropriate then why'd you agree to doing anything with him? (if in fact you are actually seeing him?) O.o
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