help me get her back :'(

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 12:59 PM

hey all, heres my problem

i have been dating a girl for over a year when she gets to go on a trip with her family to idaho. in idaho she stays at a house and rooms with 2 other guys that arent related. while there she gets tempted to cheat on me, so instead the next day she breaks up so she wont hurt me. and so later that night she gets busy with the guy she likes. we had it all planed out that we would date later on but.... she decided to date this new guy and now she wont even look at me. is there anyway i can get her back? and if you need more info ill gladly fill you in

**The Great OV!!!** · 28-02-07, 01:23 PM

Wait.......wait.................wait.............. wait..........lol.....wait.....let me get this straight.....lol....you guys break up....so she can **** and then the plan is to get back together? .....LOLLERSKATES! ....ow...my stomacj huwrt frm laughng lol..

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 01:27 PM

lol ok well the deal was she didnt want to do something stupid and if she did she would feel horrible. so we took a break until she got back, but instead she ends up dating him... i know it sounds weird but yea they did stuff but im trying to put it behind me because i really like this girl and i dont want to loose her to this guy

**Tigger_** · 28-02-07, 01:28 PM

lol... its hilarious... whoever said people get possessive with their girlfriends... lol, maybe youre not good enough in bed.... ufffffffffff.... please fill us in with more detail...

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 01:30 PM

ok ok yes yes ill give u more detail lol. ok so she goes up here and doesnt want to hurt me so just incase she gets caught up in the moment, we break apart. but now she is back from her trip and with the guy (who lives in idaho...) and i really would like to find a way to get her back

**The Great OV!!!** · 28-02-07, 01:31 PM

No offense but I am pretty sure she looks down on you after making such a decision. I mean, think about it...if I told my girlfriend that I am going to break up with her so I can have some nookie in the next room for 15 minutes and then get back together with her...and she agreed....I would probably lose all respect for her. You should have just put your foot down, that is what man do.

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 01:33 PM

yes but see, she is the one that broke up with me so she wouldnt hurt me, i had no choice but to accept it. (come to find out a few minutes ago, they did not go all the way but pretty close...)

**The Great OV!!!** · 28-02-07, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by disturbed_23

ok ok yes yes ill give u more detail lol. ok so she goes up here and doesnt want to hurt me so just incase she gets caught up in the moment, we break apart. but now she is back from her trip and with the guy (who lives in idaho...) and i really would like to find a way to get her back

I am telling you, she doesn't respect you as much anymore. The other guy gave her great spontaneous sex(the part where you heard it came only close is a lie) and you didn't even care and with the way you are acting she probably figures she can keep it going with that other guy till she gets bored since you will run back to her no matter what(amazingly).

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 01:34 PM

ah so what ur saying is, dont be so needy around her, act like u dont want to date and she will get the feeling she cant have me back, and then try to get me?

**The Great OV!!!** · 28-02-07, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by disturbed_23

ok ok yes yes ill give u more detail lol. ok so she goes up here and doesnt want to hurt me so just incase she gets caught up in the moment, we break apart. but now she is back from her trip and with the guy (who lives in idaho...) and i really would like to find a way to get her back

I am telling you, she doesn't respect you as much anymore. The other guy gave her great spontaneous sex and didn't even care and with the way you are acting she probably figures she can keep it going with that other guy till she gets bored since you will run back to her no matter what(amazingly).

Did you ask her to come back yet?

**Tigger_** · 28-02-07, 01:37 PM

dude, if u really liked her, u wouldnt have agreed to all this... and now that she's done this to you, u really shouldnt want her... she's a loser, go after someone else...

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 01:38 PM

yes i have and she stated that she likes this other guy. basicly what im asking is how to get her to get off of this guy and back onto me

and EDIT: Tigger, yes i know that, i didnt want to agree, but she was going to break up anyway and if i wanted to still date her later on i just figured that i would let her do her thing and never look back at it

**The Great OV!!!** · 28-02-07, 01:39 PM

Originally Posted by disturbed_23

yes i have and she stated that she likes this other guy. basicly what im asking is how to get her to get off of this guy and back onto me

I agree with Tigger that you shouldn't want her back...but...honestly the only answer here to get her back is wait...she will get bored of him...if not then you can't do anything about it...she is the other 50% of the choice of getting back together. You both have to agree on it. You told her you love her and everything? how does she respond to you wanting her back?

**disturbed_23** · 28-02-07, 01:41 PM

yes good point, but i was wondering if there was anyway to persuade her to like me again over this guy

**Tigger_** · 28-02-07, 01:42 PM

tch, u should look for someone else, she's not good for you,

just think about what you're saying, even if she's the best person you've ever met, you cant put up with this sort of nonsense... nobody should...

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